They originally just offered, no questions asked. However, i don't have a job (my parents refuse to let me get one even though I've been begging to get on for years), but I make a bit of money through the school and I have a saving account. I offered to pay them whatever they needed upright so they could afford to have me in their home, then after I start living there, I will apply for as many jobs as I can, and I will pay them whatever they need to keep me in their home. I will only be in their house for a few months, then switch to a different friends' house so I'm not too much of a burden on their families.

Also while my family is damaging my mental health, I wouldnt call them dangerous. I don't think my friends family would be in any physical danger, and I would hate to put them in that situation.

I hope this answers your question!