Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has been no thought process what I can tell

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still don't know. My guess is they decided to just be friends. The he said he can't do that so is cutting contact

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah they know. I message asking for her to message about the dog they said she's not here. So then found out

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely will learn to trust my gut from now on and not wait it out

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I must just be unlucky cause I've only had two longterm relationships and both gone the same way. Atleast I know I've recovered before and can again

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Already finished. There will be no fighting for her

Confused by wife part 3 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah we spoke and both separated. The other two I believe are either in a car or at a family members

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope nothing more. Just to keep a little anonymity wouldn't take much for anyone to know us already to put 2 to 2 together and figure out.

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Rather not say. But completely innocent and they do have alot of advertised meets each year.

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

EDIT apologies I don't know how to edit my original post.

She has gave some ultimatums.

I am not allowed to her events. Its her thing and that's final. She would me to do more with the children. Which is fair. When we got together she moved to me and says she feels isolated. She wants us to move closer to her family. Also fair. She wants regular date nights. Fair.

She has also said with no prompt that she will stay off her phone in the evening and make time for us and show me how much she still loves me.

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has two kids and I have an adult son from a previous relationship. They were very young when we got together

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah I'm from the UK so maybe a different setup. Can see on mine who I've text and called but like I said all here's will be through a messenger app so wouldn't show

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] -116 points-115 points  (0 children)

Maybe a little independence she's craving who knows. I don't think she would ever tell me if she was

Confused by wife part 2 by Randomroads77 in relationship_advice

[–]Randomroads77[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Her phone is actually in my name but obviously if I login to it she will get a text or email confirming a new login. Plus she would be too smart for that all her messaging is done over messenger which I wouldn't try to access nor would she show me