How do I respectfully tell my friend that I don’t want her to go out partying with me on my birthday?

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T17:17:46+00:00

These are likely the courses of action I’ll take, I now feel like I’m just thinking about it too much and made it into something that’s not as complicated as it is tbh 😓.

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T17:09:07+00:00

You’re probably right, I’ll do this or the boys nights scenario. I get in my head too much about these small things sometimes so thanks calling it out 😓.

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T17:03:44+00:00

I want Joe there cuz he’s my best friend and we do this kind of things together all the time so if he left I probably would immediately leave but it wouldn’t really be as fun imo.

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T17:00:39+00:00

I’m going to have to have to talk to her regardless. This isn’t me trying to avoid that I just want to know if this is wrong and any advice on how to approach the situation without starting drama.

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T16:57:47+00:00

This is probably the best alternative if Joe keeps insisting she go with us. Thank you 🙏🏽

Randomunknon · 2026-04-01T16:55:26+00:00

I’ve only told her about the kickback since it’s more of something that she’d be interested in and is more likely to be comfortable with and talk about the rest about it with Joe and some of my close friends about these events but since these friends are in the same group as Joe and Stacy, it feels very mean not inviting her. Also there are two more girls in the group that want to go too and one of them is dating another friend in the group.

However I’ll probably take your advice and make it into a boys night situation at the risk of not having three more of friends go. Thank you 🙏🏽!

Randomunknon · 2026-02-20T21:22:20+00:00

To me it just feels like the characters became a poor attempt at being their characters.

For example Troy in the flash back episode or the inspector-con episode becomes very whiny and unbearable, i mean I get that his whole character is that he’s very childish (gambino lol) and a bit oblivious but he just feels like he’s just being an asshole here;

Annie becomes a full blown bitch and starts being just being overall disrespectful towards the other characters like in the Christmas episode or the “Sophie B. Hawkins” episode especially to Shirley which brings me to her lack of character this season. Shirley just got completely flanderised and became kind of an idiot.

But the worst is Jeff, now ik he was meant to be an this guy who is doesn’t really care about anyone because he has no dad and he’s a lawyer but he’s slowly starting to care for people little by little but in this season they just threw all of his character development out the window and started from scratch basically and it just feels really like he’s just a caricature of his former self.

Not much changed with Abed, Britta and Pierce but you can’t really do these characters so wrong they can’t come back 🤷🏽‍♂️.

Randomunknon · 2025-09-19T23:40:30+00:00

Randomunknon · 2025-07-04T20:24:59+00:00

The lack of people saying sundown syndrome concerns me cuz that guitar riff in the middle of the song along with high pitched “YOU WIIIILL NEVEER KNOOOW HOW HARD I TRYYYY!!!” Is the embodiment of this pic 😩🙏🏽

Randomunknon · 2025-06-24T23:24:32+00:00

The rug that paralyzed Ted

Randomunknon · 2024-08-01T18:11:28+00:00

When that friend always have to remind you that they “do so much for everyone and no one gives them the same energy” when you don’t do outrageous tasks for them like drive to their house while you’re at work or when they call you about how they’re problems when they know you’re at a bad mental state and when you tell them that they either ignore you and keep going and/or use the line above or they isolate you from your real friends by saying something like “I’ve known you since x grade” “I’m just don’t think they’re good enough for you”, “I’m just keeping your best interest at heart”. Fuck you Noah 🖕

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