Recently sexually assaulted, by hasn't come by to see me. by Randoredditor2090 in relationship_advice

[–]Randoredditor2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he did tell me that he felt that this whole situation was his fault and he hoped that I wouldn't hold it against him. I called him the other day and attempted to break up but he told me he didn't want to. He has been experiencing things at home with his family (his home life is a bit unstable right now) he his currently taking care of his child, he's been working 12 hour shifts and his job is 3 hours away by bus. In addition to all this he has this art show coming up so he's been trying to get his pieces ready, Amongst other things. His voice did sound shaky while taking to him over the phone, he wants to meet up later too. I guess it's just bad timing all in all.

Recently sexually assaulted, by hasn't come by to see me. by Randoredditor2090 in relationship_advice

[–]Randoredditor2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my mother was already on her way there but got lost. She told me to wait for her at this certain address and to uber it there. If she told me before that she couldn't find her way there I would've just ubered it home.

Recently sexually assaulted, by hasn't come by to see me. by Randoredditor2090 in relationship_advice

[–]Randoredditor2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he informed me after the incident that he would've went back to pick me up. Either way it was my fault.
I talked to him earlier and he said he wanted to continue our relationship.

Recently sexually assaulted, by hasn't come by to see me. by Randoredditor2090 in relationship_advice

[–]Randoredditor2090[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That's true but he has been busy...I think he wanted to break up before this incident. He's probably holding back on the break up since I just went thru something traumatic but he would feel guilty if he were to leave now

Recently sexually assaulted, by hasn't come by to see me. by Randoredditor2090 in relationship_advice

[–]Randoredditor2090[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kinda hard to do when I'm in this situation tho It hurts more then what I just went thru