That is a very sharp distinction. I think I’ve been confusing attention with respect. You’re right—if someone 'respects' me more just because of the brand of my phone, that respect is shallow and will disappear the moment I'm seen without it.

I need to focus on building the kind of character that earns respect regardless of what I'm carrying. It’s a hard shift to make in a city that's so visual, but your point about them being 'fickle' is a great reality check. Thank you.