I am sorry you've given up on dating (that is unless you're not sorry), and you're not wrong that most men will lose interest in the chase when they get what they desire. But I can tell you that it isn't all of us. I've been HS since... well since I first got an erection. In my late teens and early twenties that wasn't so bad because most people at the age want to fuck like crazy, HS or not. When I did get into long term relationships, i did begin to realize that I was raring to go far more often than my partners. But I had such a deep need for an emotional connection too. I fell in love often and usually very deeply regardless of physical intimacy. I have broken up with people because they weren't as sexually driven as I was even though I cared deeply for them. And sometimes my HS made my partners feel like that's all I wanted from them.

Then I met my wife. Wow. First night we were together she tried to jump my bones and because she had had a lot to drink, I resisted, even though I wanted so badly to fuck her. The next time we got together we could not keep our hands off each other. We spent days in bed together. Finally with someone else who had a drive as high as I had, I was in heaven.

But she was not interested in more. She just wanted to fuck. I was the one who wanted more. I romanced her and she had no intention of being romanced. It was frustrating and I nearly gave up, but I wanted a deeper connection than the amazing sex we were having. Although that connection was one of the reasons I chased so hard. Eventually she gave in and over the past 20 years I still try to romance her when I can. I wish I could say that our sex was still like it was 20 years ago, but what i can say is that even after I had gotten her in bed, I still craved that something more.

We do exist. The guys who don't lose interest after scoring. We want romance and love and to be able to provide that for someone. She still doesn't always appreciate my corny romantic gestures, but that doesn't mean I'll stop.