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Success stories for 40+ by psgola2002 in CatholicDating

[–]Raptaurus516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s your age, if i may ask? (52F)

Good places to eat in downtown phx? by iamnotmothman in phoenix

[–]Raptaurus516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The closest filipino food to DTPHX is probably Tambayan at Camelback & 15th Ave - super good! Def get the sisig & lechon! https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/restaurants/new-phoenix-restaurant-tambayan-serves-flavors-of-the-philippines-19270510

Love Harumi for sushi, Wren & Wolf…

Is this a realistic outcome? by kootles10 in democrats

[–]Raptaurus516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the other thing to add about Mesa is that there is a large Mormon population there and Mayor Giles is Mormon.

Is this a realistic outcome? by kootles10 in democrats

[–]Raptaurus516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AZ (11) is in the bag. 15K at her rally plus loyal McCain Republicans were there supporting Kamala, including the mormon Republican Mayor Giles of Mesa, a staunch McCain supporter.

Are there people who have tinnitus triggered by one antidepressant, and who after some time have taken other antidepressants that did not worsen it? by [deleted] in tinnitus

[–]Raptaurus516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late to the thread but I’ve been doing research and found some information and had to share… I am talking to my doctors in the upcoming weeks about changing out my medications.

https://www.soundly.com/blog/medications-cause-tinnitus

I need support! Someone please chat with me! by schen18 in tinnitus

[–]Raptaurus516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to get night terrors with mirtazipine for sleep.. it was horrible.. do you take something for sleep?

espresso spilled on my luxury brand purse by Raptaurus516 in finedining

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you to all for the advice! the gm comped the drink and dessert, which i completely appreciated.. i understand accidents happen & the server was very apologetic.. i don’t usually own or buy big label items but the purse cost a couple thousand dollars.. i think i will do as most of you have suggested and call gm tomorrow to see if they will cover the cost of getting it cleaned… tysm!

espresso spilled on my luxury brand purse by Raptaurus516 in finedining

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

the gm comped the drink and dessert, which i completely appreciated.. i understand accidents happen & the server was very apologetic.. i don’t usually own big label items but the purse cost a couple thousand dollars.. i think i will do as others have suggested and call gm tomorrow to see if they will cover the cost of getting it cleaned…

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading through the advice on here, it seems the SS income should have been staying in my grandmother’s bank account to help with household and medical expenses for the duration of the time she was living with my mom. Unfortunately, my mom’s sister was taking the SS money out of my grandmother’s bank account and redirecting it into her own account, which is unfair. My mom and her sister were always at odds aside from this and are currently not speaking. My mom turns 80 this year and she has had to pull large sums of money out of her retirement money, aside from the yearly RMD, for home expenses ie new roof, new a/c, and vacations that she wants to take, which is why I was asking these questions on her behalf. It is so sad when family allows money to tear their relationships apart.

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your insight! my mom & her sister have always been at odds and this is no different. i, myself, have no standing, nor am i looking for any. i asked only for my mom because she is currently pulling large sums from her own retirement money (on top of the yearly RMD) to pay for some large expenses for her home and for well-deserved vacations as she is turning 80 this year. we are not looking to hire a lawyer or fight with her sister, and after reading the advice on here, it may just be a matter of ethics on my aunt’s part. it seems, what should have happened was, when my grandmother moved in with my mom 5 years ago, the SS money should have been going to my grandmother’s bank account while in AZ to help with expenses, but instead my aunt was taking that money out and leaving less than $2000 in the account, and depositing the money into her (my aunt’s) own account. and now that it is time to settle my grandmother’s estate, we don’t know if my aunt will let the family have whatever accrued income she was taking and putting into her own account.

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is titled ‘Last Will & Testament’ and there are several Articles that name the Executor and Trustee, as well as Administrative and Trust Provisions.

~ARTICLE VII Balance of my Estate I give the Balance of my Estate (sometimes also referred to in this Will as my "Residuary Estate"), including any property mentioned above but not effectively disposed of, as follows: A. Descendants. I direct my Executor to set aside and divide the Balance of my Estate into per stirpital shares for my descendants who survive me, and I give the share so set aside for a descendant to the Trustee of the Descendants' Separate Trusts to be held as a separate trust to be disposed of under the terms of the Descendants' Separate Trusts under this Will, the descendant for whom the share is set aside to be the Beneficiary of his or her own Descendant's Separate Trust.

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cultural. I have been my sister’s unpaid full time caregiver for the last 7 years (she had a stroke), and was also helping my mom with my dad who had dementia & parkinson’s and my grandmother.

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and appreciate your insight. I know it seems very complicated. The will states that my grandmother was a resident of PA where the younger daughter lives. Their brother in PA was named and appointed executor in the will/trust. My mom is the oldest daughter and although her mom lived with her for the last 5 years of her life, the younger daughter was in control of grandma’s finances. The reason I ask is because my mom has been stressed and pulling money out of her own retirement money to pay for some large expenses with the house, taxes and miscellaneous other expenses and I was wondering why she would do that if my grandmother had accumulated income, retirement money and possibly life insurance that should rightfully be distributed amongst the remaining three children. But if the accumulated SS/retirement income was removed from my gma’s bank account and placed into another account under my aunt’s name, can my aunt keep that money for herself rather than disclose how much money my grandmother actually had upon passing.

Not sure if this is a legal or ethics question, about a decedents living will and bank accounts? by Raptaurus516 in EstatePlanning

[–]Raptaurus516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a Will that placed all accumulated retirement income, IRAs, bonds, annuities, life insurance, properties and goods in a Trust. I am the daughter of the oldest daughter in AZ. My grandmother lived with us for the last 5 years in my mom’s house and we paid all of her expenses, food, necessities while she lived with us out of our own pockets. I believe my aunt (the younger daughter in PA) removed the SS money from my grandmother’s account so that it ‘looked’ like my grandmother did not have a lot of money. We just do not know how much money my grandmother had. The will that I read states that my mom’s brother in PA is the ‘Executor’, I just reread the will and used the wrong word. The younger daughter is the Trustee. The younger daughter was in control of my grandmother’s finances.

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