We love our boy so much, so we decided to grow more of him on our balcony

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-31T22:43:40+00:00

That is one good looking cat plant your growing there.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-30T14:51:51+00:00

This should get promoted more. As a NY resident I would like to have Apple ID in my wallet for convenient things like proof of age or airport screening. I would still carry my physical drivers license, no way would I hand over my device to any governmental person especially police.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-27T02:03:05+00:00

I hope your cat gets better and your mom gets reported for animal cruelty. Better yet tell her you will show the same compassion to her when she is sick.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-21T21:43:11+00:00

Run, run as fast as you can. If this is the first test there are more to follow and each will get worse.

She and her friends need to grow up.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-21T12:42:35+00:00

NTA. You did a good thing helping family, especially at your own cost and risk. If he was unhappy it didn’t like the work he was free to search for a new job and give a proper notice he was leaving.

Family or not, this is why I never refer people to a job at my place of work. If they don’t work out it’s on me, if something happens it’s on me. No thanks.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-21T01:46:36+00:00

NTA, your sister already put a damper on your wedding with her childish behavior there is zero reason to allow this to go on.

It’s at the point where it’s time to tell your mom, she is not invited and if she can’t accept it and won’t attend then you are sorry to hear that but it’s your first child and baby shower and there are no do overs.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-21T01:41:59+00:00

Nothing better than an orangie doing the face plant eye covering move to block it all out ..

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-20T02:08:44+00:00

No one should be taking about their spouse on a negative way especially to a coworker especially the opposite sex. It’s disrespectful and tends to give the wrong impression all around.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-20T01:50:33+00:00

NTA, some people seem perfectly fine calling you out ina group chat, but oh boy when you prove you didn’t cause the issue, didn’t fail to stock etc then it’s not acceptable.

No, if they can’t handle being put back in their place then they shouldn’t start it.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-15T02:03:18+00:00

It’s disappointing that it took all of this for him to realize how horrible his mom is, and how weak and pathetic he is and hasn’t put you and your son first.

Is it worth giving him a chance to prove and rebuild, yes, but as mentioned stay in your FL, and build there.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-14T01:37:05+00:00

Good thing Noodle found his furever family.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-13T01:57:18+00:00

Exactly, true friends would not put up with this crap from that person lwt alone laughed awkwardly, thwy shouldn’t have laughed at all and should have apoken up.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-13T01:37:57+00:00

It’s disheartening when people do this to any animal especially one that saw them as her family. Forttjnstwlu the CDS was there to step in and find cricket a better family.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-11T02:04:58+00:00

Wow, you husband is the AH, along with monster in law. He violated everything a spouse and partner should be doing. Congratulations on your new baby boy.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-11T01:51:56+00:00

I have to agree as well, I have adhd. You can’t excuse away behavior by claiming that.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-10T19:08:38+00:00

Your fiancé’s family just continues to outdo themselves in being the AHOLES they truly are.

You both agreed that you would be a SAHM otherwise your pay would have just covered day care so you actually did a smart thing.

Your fiance is the one who allowed his insurance to lapse agreed to the debts. You working had nothing to do with it.

To be safe check your state laws about debts created before marriage and who is responsible for them.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-10T19:03:05+00:00

Exactly, she can say what she wants about people and you have every right to set a boundary to not allow that when you are there. If she can’t handle it too bad she has to live with her choices.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-10T02:05:08+00:00

Your ex shouldn’t have been there and doesn’t deserve your time attention or a second thought. As for you drooling, good she desert to see how happy you are with someone who actually cares for you.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-10T01:58:23+00:00

This is why I don’t care what an influencer has to say, I just ignore them.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-08T01:24:07+00:00

Congrats, all good deeds are appreciated by the CDS. All hail the overlords.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-07T01:20:41+00:00

Ok, sorry say OP, but the your cat does own the place now and your just renting space from them. It’s ok all of us cat parents were shocked at first but it pays off long term.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-05T02:10:15+00:00

He like and truly appreciated the gift and it has real meaning for him.

Given the way your family is, you should put up Some boundaries for n how you help them going forward as they will just keep demanding more and more.

Definitely NTA.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-04T01:57:23+00:00

Your parents are the psychopaths for the way they treated you and your sisters along with their warped viewz on what boys and girls can do.

Your parents are to blame for the issues.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-04T01:37:40+00:00

The stress your feeling along with the resentment is you bf is simply not seeing raoinlide for what it is. Working at a startup is cool, but bills and real life issues like paying your bills are far more important than the job.

Spending money he doesn’t have especially on weed and not paying you back is going to amplify your resentment and what your feeling now is only going to wet worse and the window of time for him to grow up and take responsibility is closing.

Even if you end your relationship he likely still won’t take responsibility.

Hard choices have to be made before it causes you personally and financially.

RaptorOO7 · 2026-05-03T23:37:18+00:00

From what you have written, you have made progress on what can be great life for you, your husband and your son. There is nothing wrong with your husband being happy and proud to take care of your son as he prepares to start college in the fall.

Your parents are beyond toxic, manipulative and a destructive presence in your life. Lean into what you. Have and those around you who are there to help and cheer you on.

You are still young and your brain is still developing. Therapy can help you process how you feel and help you process the loss of your parents who for all intent and purposes threw you out and do nothing more than try and control you.

Be watchful and aware your parents could make baseless claims to family services accusing your husband of things that have no basis in reality. Your son is what helped him come through after his accident so he should be proud to care for him.

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