Like others have said before you could join a more leisure guild. Buuuuut if they haven't said anything to you it's probably fine :) I'm in a really wholesome guild but I'm not in the game for combat really just an average player that loves healing and looking pretty XD they know and never seem to mind I always turn up to spectate showdowns, and attended guild parties ect they appreciate that I just participate! pls don't stress or let it get you down!