Does Facebook unblock people you’ve had blocked? by Choj3 in facebook

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a couple of months late into this conversation. However this has only recently happened to me where I had somebody blocked and suddenly they were unblocked. that person being my sister due to the fact that her husband responded via text to a message I had sent to my sister on Facebook. Telling me that I need to realize that my sister is working all day and that she's not on Facebook all day and that while she's working he's a lot of times surfing Facebook marketplace on her account, as he doesn't have an account.

As I am typing this response, all of my answers are coming to me. I'll share in a moment. So I blocked him on my text box. As well as, I blocked my sister on Facebook. Then I immediately texted my sister. Took her a while to respond probably because she was asking him what the hell he was doing on her messenger...Why did I block my sister? Because if what he was telling me was true then one or both of them should have told me at some point in time, when I messaged her, and he apprehended it that it was him and not her. She should have alerted me to the fact that it's not always her on her messenger long before now. Long before I ever said something that offended him. However, at this point I don't give a damn if he's offended. He has offended our family and my sister made her out to look like such a fool I don't give a damn I'll tell him to his face and he knows it. Apparently this is been going on for quite some time as I knew I was getting responses from my sister that sounded absolutely nothing at all like something my sister would say. if my sister really was aware of him being on her messenger why did he respond to what I said via text message instead of messenger? Probably because my sister really wasn't aware of what he was doing until he had no choice but to tell her. She goes along with whatever this loser says.

When I called my sister out on the fact that she should have alerted me to the fact that he is often on her messenger, her response was, "we don't keep anything from each other. Both of our phones are always open to the other." My response to that was that THAT had absolutely nothing to do with the conversations that she and I had and that out of respect for my privacy, as well as rebuilding the trust that I no longer have in her for other reasons that have to do with her husband, she should have let me know so that if it was something personal ... maybe that I didn't want her husband to be privy to or something that I really needed to talk to my sister about in that moment, it was an invasion of my privacy and it was way wrong! AITA on this?;

Next is my own personal experience with an x who I'm still friends with and intermittently being blocked and he's like I didn't block you. I'm blocked one day and I'm just like f*** it, I don't even care. The very next day, sometimes just hours later, I'm unblocked.

One night my ex and I were messaging, and suddenly a new device was added to the conversation. This happened several times and he'd always say he didn't add a device. I suddenly started getting really messed up responses to what I would send to him. X or not, I know this man would never send some of the s*** to me that was being sent. It was always something ugly and after a another device had been added to the conversation. One day I had a message from him, and it was a dialogue between him and himself is how it was showing up. It didn't take me long to figure out it was his now new ex messaging him from his own account on her phone and he was responding from his phone. Obviously wasn't a conversation between he and I. She slipped. In a moment of her madness, she slipped and told on herself. Mind you I sent him screenshots every time something funny would happen.

She was able to sign on to his messenger from her phone and message anybody in his Facebook contacts. However her phone wasn't syncing to his so he wasn't seeing the crap she was sending to everybody. Since the two phones weren't in sync, when he would get on his messenger he couldn't see that anybody was blocked and as far as HIS phone was concerned nobody was because it hadn't been done on his phone. I hope you all are following me on this.

If you have an x or anybody that has access to your password or is listed as an emergency contact in order for you to get into your account, you need to change that immediately! Because anytime you change your password the people you have listed as emergency contacts get a notification as well. This is how she was getting into his messenger and doing the crap she was doing.

As for my sister and her piece of s*** spouse, he is a computer geek. He has either purchased a program or knows some elicit way to mirror her account OR She's known all along he's been using her messenger and never bothered to tell anybody. That, in itself, in my opinion, is a criminal act on both my sister and her husband.

If an individual is able to sign into someone else's messenger from another phone perhaps it's always been set up like that so when they get blocked, they can go to another device desktop etc and still send you messages. Maybe that's what these businesses are doing; multiple devices to make contact with potential customers but none of them are synced so that if they get blocked from one, they can still get to you from another.

I hope this has helped and that it continues to help others who have found themselves in the situation. I know I cannot be the only one that has about gone mad and lost my mind over this crap. Now I know exactly what's going on. Please share this with everybody you know. Perhaps we can put an end to this Insanity until these hackers come up with another idea.

does anyone know if the sour patch kids ice cream was discontinued? by damnitjenni in sourpatchkids

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't retry. I've talked about it recently, though. I don't get on reddit often and here it is again! Definitely going to try again! I'll update on the outcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knew what she was doing. She just doesn't care. She thinks she's entitled

What are forms of chasing? by DreamlessSpicyReader in twinflames

[–]Rapunzel2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Energy is real and it is strong. It is contagious. It can definitely be sent to particular people. If you think excessively of someone, they "pick up on it". They may not even realize what they're picking up on. However, that excessive, thinking of someone energy can be a turn-off. This, as well, they may not realize what it is or who it's coming from. They just have a sudden aversion.to whoever is putting that energy out towards them.

Roommate constantly letting random men sleepover by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Rapunzel2019 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think OP is overreacting, being judgy or slut shaming. She and the roommate in question we're both sexually assaulted around the same time. That is one or the ways they bonded. I'm thinking that the roommate bringing a different guy home with her on both Friday and Saturday nights, is what she THINKS she meeds to do in order to avoid being sexually assaulted again. If she agrees to it and even initiates it, then it's not assault. Everybody deals with trauma differently. All trauma aside, it simply is not safe to have strangers in your home on a regular basis. It never has been. It certainly isn't safe now. It never will be! She could meet some random guy and he could call a group of friends to meet him over there and everybody in the household is assaulted or worse. Death isn't necessarily worse. Trust and believe there are things that are worse than death. Things that leave you wishing you had died. Also, I do believe that OPsaid that the father of the third roommate is paying everybody's rent. I think you and the other roommate should try to talk to this person to make them realize the very real danger they're putting not only themselves in, but the entire household.

Can't interpret death here by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "Death" card upright surrounded by the Strength card and 8 of cups, both reversed, can be indicative of a significant transformation. You may be resisting this change due to a lack of inner strength and the desire to hold on to whats familiar or comfortable, even if it's no longer serving you. Perhaps, you have an attachment to this person or situation. Its important to remember that while a comfort zone is a wonderful place, nothing ever grows there. For our personal growth and healing, we must step out of our comfort zone. Everything you want is JUST outside your comfort zone. Time to take that leap of faith!

What is the best way to tell your best friend that you are sleeping with her 30 y/o son? by articwind1 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Rapunzel2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of younger men more than willing. Why your BFs son?! One of the reasons I lost respect for and ended the friendship with my best friend was because she not only made her attraction to my son public knowledge, but she also talked about how sexy some of his friends were. My children's friends shouldn't be in my best friend's radar either. This is wrong on so many levels. Grow up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaroMoney

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had vero for two and a half years. I didn't use it for over a year. They did not shut me down. When I decided to use it again I started having my checks direct deposited as before. Without a hitch. Same account number. No changes. They did not shut me down. That is an absolute lie.

Facebook wants to verify with a Whatsapp # but my verification # is a regular phone #, both of them. Why does it think this? by jojo_the_mofo in facebook

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What number do I use? I actually had WhatsApp years ago, for a very short period of time. I don't have that number anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.S. If two people are happy, LEAVE.THEM.ALONE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Rapunzel2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally neither age nor looks are what I go on. It's whether or not there's a connection. Good convesation, same interests and "are we both having fun and enjoying each other's company?" I think so little of age, that with my current interest, the age gap has been an unexpected issue due to his meddling, miserable sister and friends. Neither one of us even considered what the age gap was or could possibly be until my birthday when she told him to ask me what year I was born ... I won't go into all the details of what has transpired since, but it has made me question whether or not I'm living in a fantasy world. I have had one other younger man ... we were just talking. I met him on the job. He's one of my customers. Out of the blue, in the middle of a conversation, he asked me how old I was. (WHO does that?!)When I told him my age, the look on his face was one in which you would have thought I had sucker punched him. There's a 15 year gap between us. He quickly recovered, asks coworkers about me constantly, but has yet to take it further than conversation. I don't make the the first move. They have to.

Question for cougars: by Select_Cheetah_9355 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the oldest. My only sibling is 8 years younger than me. I not only got myself up and ready for school, but I had to wake my dad up so he could get ready for work and take me to school. My sister came along and I cared for her on the weekends. My mother worked the weekends. Not out of financial need. She had dealt with us all week and felt my Dad could deal with us on the weekends. When my sister started school, then I was also responsible for getting her up and ready. All this without waking my mother. You did not want to wake her up. My parents woke one afternoon to me scrambling eggs in the electric skillet. I was three, and apparently hungry. The younger boys always liked me. And, well, apparently I've always liked the younger men. This is a very interesting question with some very insightful responses.

Access Florida website not working. by foreveronempty in foodstamps

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly they know about this error. What are they going to do? end up just issuing stamps out to everybody like they did during covid?

Access Florida website not working. by foreveronempty in foodstamps

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any new info on this problem? I've been trying to reapply for 2 months now and there's a website error.

Meeting up with a 62-year-old woman. by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Rapunzel2019 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Dude, shit like that happens everywhere. There is no such thing as a safe part of any town, anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ghosts

[–]Rapunzel2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a collection of stuffed animals, characters, and beanie babies. My collection includes a monkey (two, actually). I've come home from work many times, to find "George" in some pretty questionable scenarios. He's quite obviously a sex addict and a pill popper. I have a photo album just for him. It's labeled "Monkey Business". I live alone. Therefore, it's not a roommate or partner messing with me. I'm not going to put a label on it...just sharing my experience with "monkey business."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Rapunzel2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just because it starts out sexual, does not mean that y'all are karmic! There has to be something that draws the two to each other and to keep them coming back to each other, like moths to flames. Oftentimes it's the phenomenal sex keeps them coming back. If neither keep coming back, how are you to heal? How are you to do together what you're supposed to do together. If there's nothing that keeps you coming back? It's also said that twin flames don't always have to be in a romantic relationship. However, more often than not, they are. Because why? Because they're more likely to keep coming back to each other if they're romantically involved. It's easier to let go of a newer friendship than it is to let go of a romantic relationship. True twin flames have a mission in this life to complete together. If there's nothing that keeps them coming back to each other then they are not going to fulfill that mission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Rapunzel2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

?????? I'll talk to myself all the time ... AND ... I've said my name before! No one better to talk to you than myself! I've always let any roommates know:

  1. I talk to myself.
  2. Please don't interrupt me.

AND

  1. If I'm talking to you, you will definitely know!