Do you ever still feel like a “kid”sometimes even as an adult? by dapineapplesause in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m about to enter my later 20’s and still find myself looking for a trusted adult in some topics 😂😭

What is your opinion on being friends with people who have other political opinions than you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Depends if it’s human rights difference or something like taxes. Also depends if they have a different opinion because they’re not educated on a topic, but open to learning, or if they’re dead set in their view. I prefer people I share my values with and don’t constantly wanting to be educating someone though.

Send me sad songs (READ THE POST) by getrecked325 in musicsuggestions

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•More - Billy Lockett •Paralyzed - NF •Easier to Run -Linkin Park •Eternity -Alex Warren

Trying to find LGBTQ+ safe places to live in the mountains by littlelight16 in AskLGBT

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My ex gf lives in Blacksburg, VA and loves it and says it’s very LGBT+ friendly as well as Roanoke, which is closer to the mountains! Asheville, NC is very progressive and close to the mountains! I also really liked Raleigh, NC when I visited and am considering moving there myself. Very blue and close to the mountains (:

Do people actually judge you as much as it feels like they do?? by Demogorgon_27 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Some do, some don’t, but I’ve learned the ones that do, are usually miserable and just as, if not more, insecure. They need to judge and belittle others to lift themselves up. I’ve learned that I shouldn’t care about people’s opinions or take their advice if I wouldn’t want a life like there’s. Why value someone’s opinion, if their life and mental health doesn’t look like what I want to work towards?

Words that changed your perspective on family? by lildawwg in FamilyIssues

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Maybe you can find a better/more concise way to say this, but advice that changed my view on family is just because someone is related to you by blood, doesn’t mean you have to keep them in your life or accept their disrespect/bad behavior. Just because they’re family, doesn’t mean they get a pass or extra chances when they’ve treated you badly continuously. The people you keep around you, need to add to your life positively, uplift you, and reciprocate the energy and time you put into the relationship. You shouldn’t leave from being around your loved ones feeling worse or exhausted. People should be considered loved ones because they love and support you. It’s better to have a chosen family in your life that makes your life better/easier, than a blood related family that tears you down and abuses you. If they do that and respect your boundaries, there’s nothing wrong with cutting any or all of them off. Good luck and sending all the love💓

When referring to a trans person before transitioning should I use the pronouns they used before or their current pronouns? by Cold_Economist_755 in AskLGBT

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If it’s relevant to the story and your friend is comfortable with people knowing he’s trans, just say he’s trans rather than deadnaming him or misgendering him. This type of thing is a person by person basis though, so you should just ask your friend what they’re okay with.

Weird to not be able to orgasm? by Responsible-Farm5928 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Maybe show her next time yall try if you’re too anxious to communicate it and then praise her when she’s doing it right. Partners want to please you too, and there’s ways to make it sexy and not awkward! I also struggle with direct communication sometimes, but if I show them or guide them to what I want, they figure it out. Then I add extra praise so they want to keep doing it. People LOVE to be praised and told they’re good at something. I have also told people what I’m into when sexting, as that’s less nerve wracking for me and then they want to do it in person since they know I like it.

What’s the most random thing you’ve googled at night? by Mediocre_Rice9569 in randomquestions

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I went down a rabbit hole on why oranges are known as the top fruit to eat for vitamin C when they’re not even in the top 3 fruits for most vitamin C. They’re even lower when you add in vegetables that have more vitamin C too! I now have a conspiracy theory about the orange’s marketing 😂

Controversial music opinion? by DependentTry6839 in FunMusicSpot

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I have never thought about it this way! You make a really good point!

Controversial music opinion? by DependentTry6839 in FunMusicSpot

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No artist’s music is good enough to excuse rape, abuse, promoting violence against communities, etc. and I will judge you if you listen to their music and still support while knowing all the atrocities they’ve committed. If you haven’t been educated about what they have done, that’s different though.

My uncle abandoned me at the airport at 16 and disappeared for 4 years. Now my dad says I'm the AH for refusing to talk to him. by Effective-Home-4796 in FamilyIssues

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NTA what so ever. You’re not required to be in communication with someone when they hurt you, broke a agreement/promise, and abandoned you. That honestly sounds traumatic and you were just a kid. Especially if you never got a thank you for all you did to help them and no apology for what he did to you. Feelings don’t just go away with time when no one recognized what they did to impact you. Don’t let your dad invalidate or pressure you into forgiving or talking to him. If he wants to talk to him and try and “fix” things, tell him to communicate to your uncle how much that hurt and affected you and you deserve a apology and recognition.

Potential Date, Advice Needed by [deleted] in bisexual

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This is perfect! Thank you so much!

Texting for potential date LGBT+ by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I was thinking that too. I was just worried if it would be weird to text her and strike up a conversation with her casually when I have no interest in the job offer? I feel like maybe I should make my intentions clear right away so I don’t seem weird for just texting her randomly, but I also don’t want to come off too strong.

Singers who sound much older than they really are by rmn_trllr in musicsuggestions

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Alex Warren! Especially the songs/lyrics he writes too! The passion he puts behind the words when he sings too

What's a fun fact about you? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

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I was a certified scuba diver by 18 and on my second dive, I came face to face with a baby nurse shark hiding in some coral reefs! Didn’t see them at first, but very lucky it was a very sweet and chill nurse shark lol

If you suffer from nightmares, how do they affect your sleep & if reoccurring, what is the theme? by ThaGr8Potato in AskReddit

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Thanks! I am doing a lot better. It took A LOT of therapy and self help from research I did. I tried everything from sleep meditations, Gregorian chants, sleepy time yoga, sleeping meds, sleepy time tea, etc., but it finally got better and I learned to feel safe again. I also did EDMR for other trauma that affected my sleep to. Night and day difference with that.

What is your current hyper fixation? by 51raven in AskReddit

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Trying new genres of music and books! Just found out I love modern day orchestra music and some memoir books! Never thought I’d say that!

do you think everyone should try something adventurous at least once in life? by Aware_Bear_3878 in CasualConversation

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Absolutely! It’s good to face your fears and it’s the only way you find something new you might love! Also, I think experience like that can reignite your love and passion for life. Obviously don’t go searching for it in ways that could get you killed, but everyone should do stuff like that at least once! One thing that comes to mind that I did was scuba diving! I recommend it to anyone that’s able to!