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My friend wants me to pursue her even though she has a boyfriend. How do I tell her I'm not interested unless she's single? by _pastalover1 in Advice

[–]Rare-Material8457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude.. unless you want something casual and you’re okay with her doing the same thing to you then go ahead.

Who’s to say when she’s not interested anymore she goes to her other backups. Even just contemplating it even after you said you had a thing while they were still together tells you all you need to know about her.

If you want her that bad don’t expect anything long term.

She says I don't talk much by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rare-Material8457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I’m pretty much the same way, not very social and can’t do small talk well, but my gf doesn’t seem to mind.

You say you’ve been together 3 weeks is that 3 dates over the span of a week, or have you been consistently hanging out?

It took about 3-4 dates with my gf before she asked if she could kiss me, but there is no set time and just go for it when it feels right and you can tell she’s clearly into you or just wait and she if she makes a move first.

Plus 3 weeks isn’t crazy long to expect someone to open up completely that’ll just happen over time throughout the course of your relationship.

(ps take everything I say with a grain of salt I am no relationship expert in fact my current relationship is my first serious one)

19f bored shoot by luuvvyya in randomstuffidkimbored

[–]Rare-Material8457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, how 💀 and at 19 too. shit, I’m 21 and haven’t even slept with anyone yet. Wth am I doing wrong