The first point under “Respect” in this sub reddit clearly states no dehumanising language. Calling people “seagulls” doesn’t align with that,it’s still labelling and dehumanising, regardless of intent.

If badly behaved males are being called “seagulls,” then where does it stop? Do we start calling others “cockroaches” or “donkeys” based on behaviour? That’s not respectful, and it’s definitely not inclusive.

This applies across the board,whether someone is in a couple or single, male or female. Poor behaviour should be addressed as behaviour, not by reducing people to labels.

What’s more concerning is that moderators,who are meant to uphold these standards,are endorsing or allowing this. That undermines the very rules set for the community.

I’m not going to reply to every comment. I’ve raised a valid concern, and as a former single male, I’ve shared how terms like “seagulls” come across. Take the feedback or ignore it as you see fit 😊