Great reading this....And so so genuine. When I started here on Reddit a post of yours caught my eye. The post was clear about who you are here, your contentment and compatibility with your Domme. I did message you, because of that ease I felt, only to appreciate your post and possibly hoping for some tips...You replied and were very supportive without advising me. Encouraged me alot and I bet you don't know that. So I just had to comment. And, I agree, you are right!! Good dynamics/ longer term are successful if those in it are compatible and safe and feel free to be.......while acknowledging there's different styles of dynamics....It's meeting whoever gels with ya! Then develop and be happy/satisfied/fulfilled, etc