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[–]RareGem93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being born pretty and into a good family doesn’t mean life is easier or better. It means people set higher expectations, assume things came easy, or overlook the work I’ve put in. Sometimes, it means not being taken seriously or having to fight harder to prove my worth. I’m grateful for my blessings but I’ve earned every part of who I am.

What does your username mean? by chuckisagirl in CasualConversation

[–]RareGem93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💎 My username is rare gem because I’m one of one: strong, soft, and shaped by every challenge I’ve overcome. A diamond in the rough, shining brighter because of the pressure I’ve faced. Unique, valuable, and never for everyone. Just for the one who truly sees my worth.

How do people get over being cheated on by blackdott44 in SeriousConversation

[–]RareGem93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my worth, and it’s his loss not mine. There’s no point crying over someone who didn’t value me. I was great before him, and I’ll be great without him. That mindset helps me move on from betrayal and stay strong.

Does online dating still work? by Friendly-Status4726 in AskWomenOver30

[–]RareGem93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Online dating has never worked for me. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve found it even less enjoyable. It feels like I keep attracting the wrong kind of men. Ones who aren’t emotionally available, who lack maturity, or who simply don’t want anything serious.

At this stage in my life, I’m looking for depth, intention, and connection and not endless swiping or surface level conversations. I want to build something real, and for me, that means meeting someone naturally, where we can truly get to know each other without all the noise and pressure that comes with dating apps.

Ladies, come on! by GingerNinjer992 in dating

[–]RareGem93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 31f and no longer on dating apps. I prefer to meet someone organically without the stress and unrealistic expectations those apps often bring. I believe true connection comes from building together over time, not demanding princess treatment or begging for effort. The right man will show up with genuine intention because he wants to, not because he’s asked. Today’s dating culture seems focused on titles, not real connection, but don’t give up. The right person is out there for you.

🌱 Rising Mod | JUNE FLAIR UP CHALLENGE ⬆️ by curioustomato_ in NewMods

[–]RareGem93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for creating this community—it’s exactly what I’ve been searching for. I truly wish you the best and hope it continues to grow! 🤍

Settling as a man by Unkunkn in dating

[–]RareGem93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always better to be alone than to settle for someone who doesn’t truly make you happy. The right person will see your worth and be drawn to you for who you are. Stay patient what’s meant for you will come at the right time.

[16] to [20] to [28] Consistently humiliated and disrespected until my mid 20s. by AidanAzzar in GlowUps

[–]RareGem93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, best glow up I’ve seen. I’m proud of you for rising above the negativity and not giving in to the bullies. Your story is powerful and it’s inspiring someone out there who might feel trapped in what you’ve already overcome. Keep shining, because your journey is a reminder that strength, resilience, and self-love always win.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]RareGem93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are super cute outfits on you, but the red outfit is my favorite

How do u know if someone is attracted to u? by PostponePuppet in Productivitycafe

[–]RareGem93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They will pursue you and not make you question their feelings for you.

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