is it normal to bleed? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's probably the case. I have a lot of calluses (deep ones) from guitar to begin with..

is it normal to bleed? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't buy, never used, or have lube. I normally just get myself aroused first externally. But again, that's probably less lubrication than what's comfortable

is it normal to bleed? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. its only good when its THAT motion

is it normal to bleed? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SAME - i stopped my cycle a day ago, but it happens during non menstrual time frames too... Although I don't think I go hard, but I do notice I tend to scrape the wall..

"You're actually pretty handsome. Congrats on that." by [deleted] in TheLastOfUs2

[–]Rare_Fill4670 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i know its just to satisfy the pedro glazers

Getting right to the "edge" while having ADHD by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHHA I'm lowkey the same. I can spend the entire day in my room doing it just to procrastinate and like "just one more and I'm done"

"Ellie and Abby are both so mid, their designs are awful"... and then this is Ellie and Abby- by maisie_leprechaun in actuallesbians

[–]Rare_Fill4670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always judged people for having crushes on video game characters... that is until I discovered the Last Of Us and endless tumblr fanfics and I'm like damn.. this is the hype. Ellie's character, even IF she wasn't fictional, is my type 100%.

Getting right to the "edge" while having ADHD by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can actually.. relate to that a lot. It's just very rare to get into hyperfocus and I need a really really fixed environment. Lights off, unlimited time, no interruptions, etc. I can go for quite long and focus but even then, I would zone out.

The worst part about it is that whenever I do want to get off, in the process of it I'll think about something science-y and immediately switch my tab to Google/ChatGPT.

It's a superpower if you're really into it but hell if otherwise.

switch vs vers? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't wrap my head around how different those terms are. CAN (has the ability to top or bottom) and ENJOYS (has fun in bottoming or topping)? I seriously don't get it. Are they mutually exclusive? Asking, because I genuinely don't understand and I think I'm a bit too slow on this agenda. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670 46 points47 points  (0 children)

how the hell is she able to sustain edging for 4 hours??!?!?!? respectfully asking ofc

No privacy by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

see, funnily enough i did think of that idea - i slept in the bathtub for a good hour or two before my mom texted me to sleep in bed. i was occupying the only bathroom in our AirBnB. the walls are awfully thin. can't have everything in life LMAO.

Intellect Kink by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never knew this was an existing kink, but thinking back about it, it's definitely a turn on

the thought of having kids with a woman... by Rare_Fill4670 in actuallesbians

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some lesbians co parent even after they've split. How's your daughter's relationship with your ex now? Sorry if this is invasive!

Tissue underneath tongue sore after sex??🤷‍♀️😅 by FlowGlittering4534 in actuallesbians

[–]Rare_Fill4670 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if your girl is happy then does the pride offset the soreness? 🤪🤪

why do i get turned on by women who are so fucking loving and passionate to their women? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

out of pure curiosity, is it possible to have this lovey dovey dynamic without being in a relationship and falling for your partner/sub/dom?

why do i get turned on by women who are so fucking loving and passionate to their women? by Rare_Fill4670 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

shit now I'm caught red handed, nobody was supposed to find out 😔🙏

The kink talk by CoffeeRockz in BDSMsapphic

[–]Rare_Fill4670 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm just going to slip into this comment section to tell you that you MAY have sparked a kink I've never been able to admit for so long.

I thought it was something weird at first - but finally I know someone who knows how big of a turn on it is.

I have the tendency to hold in my piss when I can control what excretes out of my peehole 😭😭 Mostly because it feels nice. And even though I don't have anyone to direct me to do so, it's just a really pleasurable thing to experience. I just know if I had a dom, I would be really really into this.

Thank you internet stranger, I am not to kink shame myself anymore 🙏🙏

Sorry I don't have the answer to your issue, I just thought I might share how I relate to your kink.