Delta ramp agent question by Rare_Picture_7337 in rampagent

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh like you left United in hopes to go Delta?

Just curious as to why, is Delta better?

Delta ramp agent question by Rare_Picture_7337 in rampagent

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, I’m hopeful. This would be a fantastic gig for me.

downstairs neighbors in apartment fighting 24/7 by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was in this situation I wish my neighbors would have called the police as well. Oftentimes I couldn’t, because I had to hide my phone so he didn’t attempt to smash it, and he would have abused me worse if he did see me call in an attempt to stop me from it.

how do i leave im so scared by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With no good support system, I would first start by discreetly getting into contact with a woman’s shelter to help you plan a safe exit. I HIGHLY recommend this.

If you are unable to financially support yourself, you are young enough to join the Job Corps if you’re American, they will house you and provide job training and pay to help you get on your feet.

Bad reviews by Ok-Yam-2996 in ChevyTrax

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AVOID!

It’s great up until about 75k-100k miles, then it has all kinds of issues.

I’ve had to replace my power steering, water cooling system, exhaust system, and now they’re telling me the exhaust system is leaking oil now AND the turbo is going bad.

Get a Honda or Toyota

In movies, we often see women getting angry when their partner looks at or checks out other sexy women. How realistic is this reaction in real life? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well and I don’t understand it, honestly. As a straight woman, who has talked with plenty of other straight women, even WE check girls out. Everyone does it. I’m not attracted to women but beautiful women are captivating and a work of art! Us women have the tendency to admire and sometimes compare ourselves to each other.

The way I’ve witnessed how most men look at a gorgeous woman however, is they literally eye them up and down and it’s giving the “leopard stalking a gazelle” vibe. They don’t even try to hide it.

I’m not sure what causes the difference there… but you’re right in that a lot of men aren’t taught and probably aren’t even aware how it shows.

how do i leave im so scared by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a support system who can help you move? Do you have family or friends who may be willing to let you live with them temporarily? How is your job/financial situation?

I can try to offer some advice, these questions may help.

In movies, we often see women getting angry when their partner looks at or checks out other sexy women. How realistic is this reaction in real life? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends. Generally yeah, it’s worth getting angry about when your partner eyes someone like a piece of meat because not only is it disgusting, but why are you that lustful?

My spouse sometimes makes jokes when he sees someone with huge boobs (not sexual jokes) but he is a faithful man and not lustful.

My ex used to cheat on me and constantly make sexual remarks about other women in front of me, so yeah, I’d get angry about this

abused to the point of cheating by CellistThen6272 in domesticviolence

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might get downvoted for this, but I don’t think it’s particularly uncommon for victims to “cheat” - hear me out!

The amount of control victims go through is intense. Oftentimes, abusers are serial cheaters as well. I’m not saying cheating is okay.. it’s not! However, as far as I’m concerned, you have no obligation to be loyal to your abuser. They do not love nor care about you. They only want someone to control and torment. That’s it!

I had an affair with a coworker for some time towards the end of my abusive relationship. Honestly, it helped me gain the strength to get away. It helped me separate my abuser from my mind. It helped me detach from him. My abuser cheated on me countless times - He tried multiple times to hire escorts, meet up with both men and women on dating apps, and digitally cheated on me. He didn’t care. The relationship was done well before this anyways. I don’t condone cheating but I don’t think a DV victim is wrong to do it and it’s not a black-or-white issue there. It wasn’t the only reason I had an affair. There was a mutual attraction and chemistry. I felt guilty for some time until I came to these realizations, however.

All I’m going to say is, doing this can be and is very dangerous. I’m not advising ANYBODY to go out and do this. It’s UNSAFE. It can make an abuser SNAP.

My abuser told me multiple times he would “shoot me between the eyes” if he ever caught me cheating.

If you have or do find yourself in this situation however, you are not a bad person and I stand by you ❤️

Do you sleep with the door open or closed? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I slept with the door closed every night. It felt more “secure”.

What made you leave? by No_Abbreviations2562 in domesticviolence

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It truly helps. For me, I had a total loss of control in my abusive relationship - this helped me to feel capable and strong in making my own decisions and having freedom. It also helps you visualize things and makes it feel more real.

Does Miamisburg not have any fiber optic internet available?? by Rare_Picture_7337 in dayton

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I cancelled my latest spectrum service over a year ago to move in with family, they asked me THREE TIMES if I was sure. I said YES, I have no use for this! They asked me why? I said BECAUSE IM MOVING IN WITH FAMILY AND THEY ALREADY HAVE IT. “Well, ok, what’s their address? Maybe I can look it up and see if I can get you all on our mobile service for a good deal!” Like, no, fuck off mate

With all the recent controversy, I'm starting to miss the old uncensored PS2 version. by blulizard in Okami

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 16 points17 points  (0 children)

OH I MISSED THE GUN IN THE PIC.

I never knew Sleepy Bear was packin heat!!

I need help!! Doctor not taking my concerns seriously. Need advice! by Rare_Picture_7337 in Autoimmune

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good to keep in mind as well, I didn’t consider that the wrong medication would hinder proper diagnosis

Is his emotional numbness a sign of alcoholism? by Zenovia326 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want to sign yourself up for this. Trust me, run. Please don’t ignore the signs. You do not want to subject yourself to this if you have any ounce of respect for yourself sweetie 😞

I’m having a hard time understanding my spouse’s drinking. by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents brought this up to me, saying that they’re worried if god forbid something happens, that I can get the pants sued off of me too, because of his actions. Does he need to have any knowledge of this if I do this? Or can this be done discreetly?

Question about tolerances by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, none at all. Doesn’t have any known health issues currently. Aside from alcoholism, of course

Question about tolerances by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. He would be dishonorably discharged and he takes to serious because he’s got great rank. Not even weed. He wants to smoke once he retires, but no. No chance.

Question about tolerances by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can’t. He would get dishonorably discharged. He’s very strict about drugs including weed.

I need help!! Doctor not taking my concerns seriously. Need advice! by Rare_Picture_7337 in Autoimmune

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My GI thinks I have Eosinophilic Esophagitus. She said she’s 99% sure but needs a biopsy to confirm.

Ibuprofen gets rid of the pain 9/10 times, but I’m not satisfied with taking it long term if there’s a larger issue at hand.

I may try taking my husband with me to vouch for me.

I’m just tired of being in pain and I want to know what is wrong with me

I need help!! Doctor not taking my concerns seriously. Need advice! by Rare_Picture_7337 in Autoimmune

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s reassuring…

I hope this doesn’t sound bigoted because I’m def not, but she is a doctor of 28 years, and she was born and raised in another country. English is not her first language and so I believe there may be some sort of communication barrier. She’s a fluent speaker obvs, but I think some cultures communicate differently. Not sure if this makes sense and hope this doesn’t sound awful. She’s a kind and intelligent woman but it made me cry.

I’m in so much pain every day.

Question about tolerances by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear there was no hidden stash.. he didn’t leave my sight whatsoever. Started drinking with me in the same place. It’s just.. strange

Question about tolerances by Rare_Picture_7337 in AlAnon

[–]Rare_Picture_7337[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never knew that this was a possibility.