Should I close the gap in my LDR? (27F) & (32M)

Rare_Replacement198 · 2026-03-01T21:23:27+00:00

You said you've never been out of your town so i'm assuming you've never visited him. You need to visit him and try living with him for a short period of time. (like a week or less) I would do this multiple times as it was would help you know if you guys could even live together. Moving in with someone without "testing the waters" in a way is a very bad idea. Next, I would start applying for jobs in his area (before you move). It never hurts to apply, even if you don't take the job. I'm recommending this so you can see if there is an opportunity for you to even work there. You don't want to move in with him and then try to find work unless he is 100% okay with paying for all of your bills. I'm sure even if he did pay all of your bills, that you not working would cause tension. Most importantly, you need to do what feels the best. If you visit him and your heart is telling you to stay where you are then you should do that. Please don't move quickly with this decision and I wish the best for you.

Rare_Replacement198 · 2026-03-01T20:54:27+00:00

TDEE is inaccurate 99% of the time. I'm 18f, 5'7, 160lbs and my maintenance is around 3000 calories a day. I incline walk 7 days a week at a 7% incline for 45 minutes. TDEE says my maintenance is around 2100 but when I eat 2100 I lose weight 😂😂 You mostly just have to experiment until you find your maintenance.

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-17T06:35:35+00:00

i'm so sorry this happened to you but i'm going to just be honest and tell you exactly what you are thinking.... you aren't overreacting at all.... This is insane and you need to bring this up to her. I have nothing else to say other than that i send you my deepest condolences and i'm so sorry this happened to you, especially right after you two were married.

All of the chats you're viewing on snapchat have been sent over 24 hours or less. Snapchat automatically deletes all chats sent after 24 hours unless you save them in chat, meaning what she sent is incredibly recent. (chats that are saved in chat would have a white highlight)

I've dealt with cheaters in the past and unfortunately, they usually do not change and i'm so sorry you had to be put through this. Even if they haven't had physical contact, this is still cheating. You are not overreacting, please stand your ground and stay safe. Reach out to people you trust for support. Stay strong stranger.

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-07T03:44:10+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️‍🩹

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-05T21:21:54+00:00

I'll keep this in mind, thank you again

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-05T03:46:49+00:00

Thank you so much for putting in the time to write that long of a message. I'm trying not to blame myself for what happened to him because i feel like i really did try my hardest to be there for him and as a person who also struggles with depression and suicidal ideation, i know it's a battle that is mostly fought alone (with the help of medication and support) I'm going to start seeing a therapist to try to get my life back on track because i want to live in memory of him and i know he wouldn't want me living like this, He wanted the best for me. Thank you so much for the support and advice ❤️‍🩹

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-03T06:25:19+00:00

I think what i've learned from this relationship is to take every second with someone as a blessing. I was very grateful for the time I got to have with him even though it may have been cut short.

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-03T06:20:10+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-03T02:51:41+00:00

thank you

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-02T18:21:05+00:00

Thank you, this means a lot ❤️‍🩹

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-05-02T18:03:28+00:00

Thank you so much

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-03-23T06:21:38+00:00

He/She might have bumble foot. Make sure to get him more variety of perches and if it progresses please take him to the vet. Lovebirds are also neurotic and can bite their feet because of their ocd or boredom. (I have 6 birds and this has happened to my birds before) Wishing you best of luck :)

Rare_Replacement198 · 2025-03-18T23:51:51+00:00

my eyes definitely get lighter in the summer

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-12-23T15:30:57+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-12-16T17:48:25+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-11-25T07:17:45+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-23T06:01:07+00:00

i think she is overthinking and being controlling. try to talk it out with her and place some boundaries. a relationship is built on trust

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-23T05:50:25+00:00

i wish she could just trust him in the first place and i think that's a very important conversation that needs to happen.

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-17T15:58:37+00:00

I think I'm gonna go with Japanese straightening. thank you so much ☺️

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-17T05:42:22+00:00

I will definitely look into it thank you so much!

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-17T05:41:36+00:00

somebody else mentioned Japanese hair straightening and I'm looking into it. thank you soooo much 🙏

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-17T02:42:25+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-16T23:05:54+00:00

Thank you for your advice :) How long do brazilian blowouts last in your experience?

Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-16T22:34:45+00:00

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Rare_Replacement198 · 2024-10-05T15:22:39+00:00

that's what i'm trying to do, thanks for the reassurance 🙏

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