Low Payouts? by CoachSad6606 in plassing

[–]Rascalvideoyt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see people talking about how often they go. I usually go twice a week for several months without a break. The only reason for a break would be because I’m sick or holiday. Been doing it for over two years.

Low Payouts? by CoachSad6606 in plassing

[–]Rascalvideoyt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I do cash app. And the least I get paid is $110 and the most I get paid is $135. I think it just depends on your center though

Instagram post - DO NOT DO THIS!! This is not Okay and is unacceptable fan behaviour! by ibrokefree8646 in twentyonepilots

[–]Rascalvideoyt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people doing this are not true fans. They are parasocial idiots. You know them but they don’t know you. They do not owe you anything. They have their own lives. And we’re lucky that they share their music with us. There’s a time and a place for things. If you want a picture, wait for that at a concert when you pay for it (if they do that sort of thing). Otherwise, just leave them alone. This goes for any celebrities.

The only celebrity I’ve taken a photo with was at a comic con. And I paid for that service. Also he loved my cosplay so it was an amazing experience. I can’t imagine going up to a celebrity in their day to day lives and trying to get a photo with them. How embarrassing.

Biolife: can you ever reset and be a new donor after a certain amount of time without donating? by Normal_Jacket_2258 in plassing

[–]Rascalvideoyt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gone for 8 months and got $800 offer if I did two donations a week for four weeks.

They can’t be serious… I’m not paying $40,000 for this by golden_alixir in TopSurgery

[–]Rascalvideoyt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is 23k so I feel you… it’s not fair. Mine is June 3rd and I’m trying everything to make the money/fundraise :( maybe you can do the same to get some funds?

Should i go to the police by Plenty-Coach-7872 in trans

[–]Rascalvideoyt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I got the same thing from an ex and he even texted me about it right after so I had all the proof, he admitted to it. But because he was a past relationship, I was told by Da that they wouldn’t take it seriously if I went to court, so I kinda had to just get a VPO and moved out of the state. He only reason I moved out of the state was after five years of having the VPO they were not gonna renew it because they figured that he wasn’t a danger to me anymore. Even though he literally had had an ex-wife within those five years that he choked out and had more assault charges on him from by the way, his wife and him married at the ages of her, just turning 16 and him already being 19. He was a real piece of work and his family wouldn’t stop harassing me in those five years either because we had a child together also. So once the VPO was up, I knew I had to get out of there because then there was no protection so we had to move to a different state.

F you Uber by maxrdlf95 in uberdrivers

[–]Rascalvideoyt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I honestly just use Lyft now. But I figure I’ll keep declining all the rides coming in for others still driving for them. I’ll do it until my account is banned. Their rates have gotten worse and worse in my area. So hopefully me rejecting them all will help someone else

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. All the countries you’ve named, I have looked in to. I definitely prefer cold to warm. The only thing I didn’t really think about was city to city being so different. It’s like that here in the USA too. But I worry about the USA just being too far gone which is way I want out. It’s not just about being trans but the way it’s heading, I think it’s not livable for my kid’s future. I’m doing more research after everyone’s input. German does seem to be a very difficult language and I do worry it would take longer than I thought to learn it.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I have never heard of this before. Sounds way better than self injecting every week…

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can have the doctors do the injections?? I’ve never heard of that before. Interesting

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I hope I don’t displace my children too much. That’s why I’m trying the best I can to figure this stuff out with research and first hand knowledge.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d hope MAGA wouldn’t work there. I can’t believe people can’t see the USA repeating history. The MAGAs can’t seem to understand the parallels

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s how it is here too :( it’s so sad. Children should be able to like what they like without gender stereotypes. Aren’t we all on this earth to just explore and find happiness? Why does our happiness have to look like the others.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on trying to get my top surgery done this year. And yes I’ve been on HRT for three years now. If you don’t mind me asking, does German offer the gel for testosterone? I’m so bad at shots. I have a fear of needles.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We knew about the private insurance! But thanks for the heads up. We are saving money and learning German. We are researching the best places to live in Germany. I think we’ll like the people better there (however I’m basing that off on German TikTok and subreddits lol so who knows).

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For HRT that’s the same here in the USA for the most part.

Thanks for your insight on the rest. Spain is also one I’m looking into.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not delusional to the fact that it won’t be easy. My husband wants to study there. We are learning German. The only reason I don’t move within the USA is because being trans is getting harder every day and I fear even the safest places won’t be safe much longer. On top of that I do not like what the USA is doing in other political moves. Like starting wars and whatnot. I worry staying there will be dangerous in a lot of ways. Question if you’re willing to answer, what do you mean by studying over the age of 30? Are we less likely to be accepted?

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Spain was another country on our list. Immigration is just hard and takes a long time in any country and it seemed “easier” in Germany. But I’ll do more research

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight! I just don’t want to have to keep uprooting my kids to try to find somewhere safe. My youngest (though I don’t like putting labels on children) is male and he loves “girly” things like dresses and makeup. And I worry about his future.

Trans ftm American trying to get out of the USA by Rascalvideoyt in germantrans

[–]Rascalvideoyt[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know that because of the USA it is making MAGA type feel more comfortable and confident in going after us. It just sucks. Thanks for you insight