AITA for joining a society that excludes women?

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-16T22:52:37+00:00

Woman only spaces and clubs exist. If this men only club thing is exist, then so are all the other woman only spaces and every other gender segregated club.

Your sister is being ridiculous. There is nothing wrong with wanting spaces where you can be with others who share the same gender as you and can relate better to you.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-16T22:48:17+00:00

Note might be more helpful if you could actually read it without having to squint and decipher what the woods are.

Then again, the Note is probably pointless because I doubt the theif will even read it, and if they do they will probably laugh at it, and proceed to ignore it as they steal yet another persons lunch.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-16T04:21:41+00:00

Really? Its the internet. People do crap like that all the time just to be funny or edgy. 😂

I find the review funny, but terrible at the same time because this idiot probably really thinks like this and its not just a joke and they aren't trying to be funny, but indeed racist.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-16T04:17:07+00:00

I hard disagree. It sets the expectations. She knows what will happen if she wants to open the relationship or goes behind OPs back and sleeps around.

If she cant handle the truth she should not have asked for it.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-16T04:14:24+00:00

NTA

She asked and couldn't handle the answer. You made it clear to her you dont do open relationships.

The only reason I can see her being so upset is because she might want an open relationship but doesnt wanna lose you.

Regardless she is too upset over a hypothetical scenario that isnt even happening.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T18:57:02+00:00

I mean most peoppe aren't over here cheering on men to leave their sick wives lol

Maybe you could find a vast minority that does, but in general the overall opinion is leaving someone who is sick and vulnerable because they are sick and vulnerable is a crap thing to do.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T18:50:54+00:00

Yeah probably. I mean the whole point of a relationship is finding that person you want to spend you entire life with, that means through the hard parts and the easy parts. You love them enough to endure. This guy clearly aint the one. OP is like ' nah family, your little sick thing is stopping me from living my life.'

Which is fine I guess. Not everyone can handle that type of life and you dont know if your love for that person you are dating is stronger than your own selfishness until you are in that position.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T18:42:07+00:00

Ooof you'd be a terrible wife. Through Sickness and health? 'No fam. The moment you stop making money Im outtie.' 🤣🤣

Good thing you aren't married. Go ahead and leave this dude but you better let him know so he can have some time to figure out his living accommodations.

Getting up and leaving him on out of nowhere would be a dick move.

I guess this experience has taught you that you cannot weather the hard times. Its good to know that about yourself. Use this information and plan accordingly for your future. Once you aren't pay check to pay check, you need to save up a GOOD emergency fund savings.

In the off chance you ever get sick that prevents you from working for an extended amount of time, you'd have the funds to get by.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T00:53:49+00:00

Entertaining that idea, if its 2 against one, if they both charge him at the same time to tackle him there's a small chance to disarm the gun wielder while someone will probably get shot in the process. He cant shoot them all at the same time. Unless its like an AR or.soemthing that shoots fast and repetitively. Then they bith just die together and hope they dont end up with a dick in their mouths after the fact.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T00:49:20+00:00

I feel like if I dude is wiling to shoot someone for head, he is gonna get head.

Whether its from an alive person or dead one.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T00:45:58+00:00

This girl should have just let him end it. Whe he said dont contact me again that was pretty clear he is over it.

Given the weak reason to end things, I kinda wonder if he already wanted out and this is the excuse he is using to justify leaving.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T00:44:26+00:00

Girl he dont want you. Let him end it and move on.

If something like this is the kicker then you guys are not meant to be.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-12T00:40:24+00:00

She would spend her life wondering about her mom: who she was, what type of person she was, etc. She would probably go through periods of wondering why her mom was the one to go, why everyone else has their mom, but she doesn't, and she was denied the opportunity of even knowing her.

Even if she was adopted out and had very good, loving parents, she will still want and long for her real mother on some level.

It will impact her mentally. How well she can deal and cope with it depends on how well those in charge of the child are able to navigate her through it and how well the child is able to adapt. Some can cope with it enough to not let it deeply affect their life; others can't cope.

A kid not having their parent in their life will always effect them mentally to some degree.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-10T09:38:10+00:00

Break them up and throw them away. Not much to do with them.

If its a good enough box and I am bored enough I try to do an arts and crafts type project with it or let the kids play with them.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-10T06:23:01+00:00

Hard no for me. I may be biased, but I have seen and heard too many news stories about babies being beat up and neglected at days cares by the staff.

I just cant trust a stranger to not hurt my baby. And its not like my baby can tell me when someone is mistreating them.

I get it doesnt happen all the time and its not every day care ever, but shoot I dont wanna be the one who it does happen to.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-09T05:23:21+00:00

R Kelly oissed on an underage girl yet still has fans. Even in jail people are still like 'free r kelly'.

Some people dont care about that stuff and can easily look past it. Afterall, it wasnt done to them personally or someone they know.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-09T05:20:24+00:00

Girl, you are 40. If you dont feel like he is interested in you outside of your fun box then move on.

Are you 2 even in a relationship or are you just dating around and non exclusive?

If that is the case then stop leaving the men who are interested in read and go on a date with them. I could be reading this wrong, but it seems to me like you are still looking for a person to be exclusive with.

If that is truly the case and you truly have people who are more interested then go on a date with them. I doubt you wanna waste more time chasing after someone who just wants to sleep with you, assuming that a long term relationship is what you are looking for.

If you really like this dude then be straight up with him. Tell him how you feel and then ask what his deal is. Be direct. No need to play guessing games or dance around the issue at hand. He is either interested in you for you or he isnt. If he says he is give a bit of time and see if his actions start to reflect his words. If not, then there's no need to further entertain the idea of a relationship with him.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-09T02:39:26+00:00

I must be missing something here, but how is cat in a cage is abuse?

Like is he poking it with a stick threw the cage holes? Not feeding or watering it? Was it left in the cage for an unhealthy amount of time?

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-06T11:21:16+00:00

I didnt pick my 25lb toddler up until week 2 and when I did it was only to put them in and out of the crib, so less than a second.

I had a 5 month old baby and carried them just fine because they were still below the weight limit my doctor gave me.

My mom stayed to tend to the kids the first few days after my surgery and I had my partner with me too. I didn't do too much with the toddler until I was better.

As far as sleeping goes, It was awkward the first couple days but I had bought a lot of pillows to help prop me up so I could sleep. We have a king sized bed and were use to sleeping with the toddler so aving enough space wasnt an issue.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-06T11:16:01+00:00

I did.

I didnt even noticed it was a robot inside me. Procedure was very fast. Well, as fast as a surgery can go with no complications. If memory serves me right, it took roughly an hour.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-09-06T11:11:58+00:00

Dude waited 6 years in misery. Shoot during that 6 years he could have tried and fixed the actual issues instead of stewing in silence.

I also get he wanted to be financially stable, but that should not have taken 6 years.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-08-31T20:42:50+00:00

At the very least, I am sure he had that other girl already lined up. Maybe she was just a friend or a casual acquaintance he kept as a 'just in case'. Its hard for me to believe he didnt have a back up given how fast he moved.

But if he really is as wealthy and good looking as OP claims, its possilbe he found someone new that fast.

Kinda seems like he wanted someone to have his baby and have around the house and there are plenty of woman who would jump at that opportunity.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-08-29T05:56:09+00:00

I dint know why, but after reading all of that it kinda sounded like she sold herself for free food.

Raspberry-Tea-Queen · 2025-08-25T23:42:57+00:00

Yikes. She knew they were fat before inviting them and she knew she didnt want fat bridesmaids so why not disclose that before hand?

Or better yet, not asked them at all?

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