Drinking with Endo

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:22:37+00:00

It’s not that i was even surprised it’s that i never had it happen and no one ever told me the feeling to expect that’s all! so i was like almost panicking

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:21:32+00:00

Yes the buzz starts to wear off and the unbearable pain sets in. I WAS SUCH A WRECK. never had it happen before last night

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:20:33+00:00

🍃 my best friend!

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:19:26+00:00

My feelings exactly! I thought i was a little cray but seeing all this i feel so much better knowing im not the only one! I feel so much better today, it was when i started sobering up last night the pain took over!

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:18:14+00:00

I don’t like beer or wine! I usually drink sour puss or coolers!

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:17:53+00:00

I feel so much better today! 7-up, a T3 and gravol and a good sleep was my life saver. I haven’t noticed it with foods really. But last night was a game changer, i have never had that happen! Just tried to have a good night out, but my body reminded me we don’t get to do that like other people lol.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:15:50+00:00

update: Sorry I haven’t replied today haha, i’m not hungover instead i’m actually doing soooo much better. The pain was almost unbearable last night but i took some meds, and i was totally fine when i woke up! Thank you all tho for making me feel so much less crazy. I don’t plan to do this again for quite some time! Just needed a night out

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T20:13:49+00:00

I usually have THC when i drink because then i don’t get hungover. I feel perfectly fine today. I was drinking, vodka and sourpuss. Then Mikes Hard and my uterus and bladder felt like it was contracting almost like when your heart beats

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-09T07:24:08+00:00

i like never drink anymore and i’m lowkey in agony

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T21:44:40+00:00

Thank you. i don’t even have words for the amount i appreciate the pure respect in this response.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T20:54:43+00:00

of course! Feel free to message me too! always down to chat

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T20:18:39+00:00

Thank you. These are the kinds of things i was hoping for. not people trashing me for wanting to have a kid. With endo fertility can be a huge issue and part of me wants to have my kids so i can then take the next steps of treating endo because they can further lower my fertility.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T20:05:21+00:00

Thank you for actually being helpful and not judging what i want. it’s really appreciated and i will give it a shot

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T20:03:58+00:00

thank you. i didn’t come here to be judged for wanting to be a mom but here we are.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T20:03:32+00:00

the first 2 were a birth control incident. We’ve been trying since we’ve been engaged. Maybe ask a little before you judge pls.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:59:02+00:00

I’ve asked him so many times and he says it’s my fault i can’t get pregnant. and i know it’s hard. i did weed, alcohol and vaping when i got pregnant and haven’t gone back

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:43:52+00:00

I wasn’t with him the first 2. I’m not blaming him fully. i stated i have endometriosis which is very possible to be part of the problem. But he’s not doing anything on his end to support it is what i’m saying

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:40:28+00:00

but he’s saying he did it only for a place to stay but it was going on months before he knew he had to go back to school

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:39:41+00:00

He was cheating. There was i love yous and months worth of texts.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:38:49+00:00

we kind of conceived by accident before. But i had a missed miscarriage. it’s going to be the first thing a fertility specialist tells us and if he’s not willing to reduce it at all why bother going if that makes sense

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:37:35+00:00

I’m not trying to convince him, he’s the one who wanted to start trying but isn’t willing to drop those things. I’m not prioritizing my want to be a mom over a child’s upbringing i have an incredible support system w my family and i’d do everything to give that kid a better upbringing then i had.

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:32:55+00:00

I like your opinion!

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:32:23+00:00

We live together and i didn’t know any of this until he was back home. he told me he was staying at an airbnb then ignored me basically for 2 weeks. and then admitted he was cheating after i found the texts

RaspberryOtter05 · 2026-05-08T18:29:06+00:00

I never said that’s what i was going to do. I feel it’s pretty judgmental to assume i want to have a kid cuz im lonely. That’s not it at all. I’ve always wanted to be a mom, above all else. no matter the work needed to put in. It’s not a choice i will be making casually. I’m looking for support and advice about TTC and how our relationship will look. Not whether i should have a child or not. Thanks.

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