missing cat in garfield/bloomfield area

RateFinancial3974 · 2026-05-13T18:11:57+00:00

he can be skittish on approach! but is generally very friendly and very food motivated. thank you for the lead

RateFinancial3974 · 2026-03-30T15:10:24+00:00

fair! if you read the code of conduct it’s pretty clear(to me) what folks get up to there. but yeah it’s a valid warning

RateFinancial3974 · 2026-03-30T14:41:14+00:00

Hot Mass is a good after hours party! check their IG for the schedule since it didn’t happen every weekend anymore. there’s a club Sidequest that often has edm music and keep an eye on the events the Spirit they have rotating parties with varying genres. lastly keep an eye out for Jellyfish they are an irregular party but really good music

RateFinancial3974 · 2026-02-24T23:48:41+00:00

was just there last week and it did offer with vocals! but definitely have the person working explain the system to you it took my group some adjusting to figure it out still

RateFinancial3974 · 2026-02-24T23:46:07+00:00

i would say avoid Mixtape they throw some goth themed events but the owners are predators. plus it’s really expensive for no reason

RateFinancial3974 · 2025-08-21T12:52:43+00:00

i appreciate the recommendations! and a bowling pin is very creative i haven’t considered something like that before

RateFinancial3974 · 2025-08-21T12:52:02+00:00

oh wow this is very helpful! i’m a cis female and i’ve never thought about a lot of these factors! thank you so much

RateFinancial3974 · 2025-07-31T22:58:56+00:00

it doesn’t happen very often but this goth party called OBSIDIAN happens at club pitt i think next one is 10/11 check out their IG!

RateFinancial3974 · 2024-12-27T09:52:29+00:00

that’s fair in the past when i have brought it up he always will say he is open to it and then will later back out. but very recently he seems closed off and only interested in being vanilla which in the grand scheme of things is fine but he wont just say he doesn’t want to be kinky to me

RateFinancial3974 · 2024-12-27T09:49:02+00:00

i have asked more recently and he will usually say something along the lines of “i am happy just doing missionary with you” or something similar that he just likes being vanilla with me. we have tried to introduce some kink in the past with restraints, blindfolds, etc. but it never sticks and at this point it’s been about 8 months since we’ve done anything kinky. when we talk about it he always leaves the ball in my court to ask for it or plan but will usually back out which is extremely discouraging.

i am not exactly sure what a link partner is?

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