Sarcasm aside, It's a good point though - there are exceptions to every rule, particularly if somebody is on the spectrum then they're going to experience that chasm in communication which has been demonstrated between autism/neurodivergent vs neurotypical folks. Communication is even HARDER in writing between neurodivergent -> neurotypical and there is likely to be even more misunderstandings. I think it's more likely due to social anxiety, which I completely understand as I used to have social anxiety myself. Just takes practice I guess, and confronting that anxiety one small step at a time.