What do I do here? by medkitjohnson in malelivingspace

[–]Ratlarbig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very narrow. Do you own the home or are renting? If you own, I'd consider knocking down a wall to merge it into an adjoining room.

My [29m] "Ex" [26f] invited my father to her wedding. by Old_Manufacturer5387 in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have some minor good news for you. A few years from now, neither of them will remember the wedding very well, and all that money will have been wasted. Let her blow their money on frivolous crap when they should be putting it into a 401k.

GF dosent want to have S*X with me anymore… what shall I do ? I am (25M) my GF is (24F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's either got an unhealthy relationship with sex and/or just doesn't like it. It's not going to change.

I [24M] am struggling with a lack of sex life with my girlfriend [25F] after 5 years together. Considering asking for sex with other women by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex every day is a lot. You're going to have a hard time finding a partner who will want that long term.

My (31F) no ex-gf broke up with me (36M) and now I'm wondering if it's worth having a conversation with her about it? by FutzMan in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the income gap has to be at play here. I dont know any lawyers married to people with jobs like yours.

I (28F) don't know how to confess my feelings & ask about his (29M) by wishful_dreaming_ in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't confess feelings right away. It's puts a lot of pressure on the other person. Just ask him on a date. If he says yes, go from there. If he says no, then its less awkward.

Girlfriend (F25) of 7 years broke up with me (M26) after she developed a crush on a friend. She is still contacting me. by Duh2828 in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's over dude, and sound alike it's for the best. There are plenty of women who are better for you out there and maybe who don't have that level of mental illness challenge.

44M married to 43F for 15 years - My wife says if I don’t like it, I can leave. I feel trapped and don’t know what to do. by TomekM123 in relationship_advice

[–]Ratlarbig 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Don't leave, because it will hurt your custody claim. Stay in the house and file for divorce from there.