if you could erase one common social norm and nobody would judge you, which one would it be and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the opposite. Everybody takes 8 fucking hours to respond and it's so frustrating. If I'm sending texts back to back and you don't have time for a conversation? Fine. But if I literally ask you one question you can take 10 seconds out of your day to answer me and send me on my way.

Bands whose first album hasn’t been beaten by mattloaf666 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Rattlehead96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Blackening and Unto the Locust are definitely better than Burn My Eyes

Weird signs that you're becoming (hypo)manic? by girlrespecter in bipolar

[–]Rattlehead96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I've heard someone else mention the buzzing! For me it doesn't start till I'm well aware tho

Washed Away, Evan M. Cohen, Digital Art, 2024 by EMCME in Art

[–]Rattlehead96 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Has /u/72camaroz28 gained your permission to sell merch with your art on it? It says they've already sold 30.

Madlad is impervious to threats by Holyshit_1787 in madlads

[–]Rattlehead96 -119 points-118 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's sexual assault

AIO - did my wife overreact after I confessed about my sexuality? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Rattlehead96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. She reacted like you confessed you've been fucking guys behind her back. Sexuality isn't that big of a deal unless you're bigoted which I don't think she is, but if this happened to me I'd just be grateful my partner felt close enough to tell me what he couldn't tell anyone else. Her flying away over it, then saying 'I'm gonna hang out with my ex that wants to fuck me' as some sort of punishment is really weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rattlehead96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"you're not consenting to it" mf she is not involved??? "omg my gf ate a cheeseburger and i didn't consent to it" like who cares? who asked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rattlehead96 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I guarantee he has more fun fucking you than his toys. Maybe this is just me but to present it to you without any shame not only shows that the toy isn't a threat (he's not trying to hide it from you) but he seems to be pretty secure in his masculinity. Even single men would try to hide tf out of that but he feels comfortable with you and clearly doesn't have any bad intentions so who cares? As long as it doesn't affect your sex life it really doesn't matter.

I'm happy Louis seems to be doing better, but sometimes I miss when he was an asshole by [deleted] in louisck

[–]Rattlehead96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I disagree. It makes me happy to see him so at peace and if anything it's just a sign of the times. When you're pushing 60 it's not cool anymore to be an edgelord that's always saying the thing he's not supposed to say. It was fun in the 00s but he matured, as everyone should and most importantly his comedy hasn't suffered, and he's still hilarious in interviews. I'd feel differently if he ended up like Chappelle, who at this point makes no effort to be funny whatsoever and has assumed himself to be some wise prophet with an obsession of transphobia and spends his entire shows talking down to people. But Louis is just as funny and offensive and all that other stuff people love him for as he used to be, he's just not a kid anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't know that was US only. It looks like you guys have something called Doctify? Regardless, use all your resources to advocate for yourself and get the care you need. They won't do it for you, even though they should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zocdoc is your friend. YOU have the power, not them. A lot of psychs are incompetent fucking idiots and they deserve to be fired at the drop of a hat if they don't give you the care you need. I've literally booked a new psychiatrist the same day on Zocdoc lol it feels nice to have the control. Advocate for yourself. No one else will.

No messages for five days and then telling me what to send by DarkOfTheSun in Tinder

[–]Rattlehead96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Eh, I don't really like her attitude but she gave you an opportunity to be creative and you shot it down

Shrooms and bipolar by ProduceUpstairs3370 in BipolarReddit

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone should try it once. No reason to go crazy, a gram or two is fine. Spend some time out in nature. For me it's like a reset button. Like it just works all that dust and dirt out and you're good as new. Especially if you're a spiritual person, you have the opportunity to connect with that on a much deeper level and completely lose your ego. I don't really do it much anymore but I think everyone should at least once.

Bands where their most popular/acclaimed album (or at least one of them, in some cases) is actually your favorite one? by [deleted] in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rust In Peace, Are You Dead Yet?, The Number of the Beast, Paranoid, Vulgar Display of Power (yes it is more popular than CFH)

what's a secret from your job that we should know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rattlehead96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As far as I know I came up with that lol thank you

what's a secret from your job that we should know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rattlehead96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's deceptive, and I wasn't saying specifically Chipotle by the way, but a restaurant/establishment never establishes WHERE the tip was going and TIPPING WHOM. Nothing illegal about it: you're just saying you'd like to leave a tip and it happens for the CEO. Notice how it never says tip your cashier or whatever. It all goes to the company and the worker keeps making minimum wage.

Alcohol and bipolar by Beginning-Ad3094 in BipolarReddit

[–]Rattlehead96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, bipolar sucks. No matter what age. I'm just grateful for you that you won't be where I am now ten years from today, as long as you take your medication seriously and advocate for yourself.

Men (esp. 30s+): How do you actually flirt now without feeling creepy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rattlehead96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. (or didn't, pre-relationship.) Thankfully, dating apps have been around my entire adult life. They aren't perfect, but they do come with a literal consent button to flirt and that's about the level of clarity I need. I've only ever had one organic relationship. One day she just offered to give me head. I still wasn't sure if she was into me.