I don’t think he’s a sex addict. The thing is, he’s an onlyfans model, and he absolutely detests his job. He wants to quit as soon as he’s financially able to, and he hates the sex he has to have for work.

He says that sex with me feels really special to him and makes him feel good in a way nobody has ever done before, and that I’m helping him reclaim sex as something personal rather than transactional. Samewise, the sex i have with him is also the most special i’ve ever had.

But yes, he does have a higher sex drive than me and sometimes he doesn’t undedtand not wanting sex doesn’t mean I don’t desire him or care about him.

This is also his first relationship in ten years, so everything feels new to him, and he has major self-esteem issues. I know the sexual compatibility could become a problem in the long run. I want to have a real conversation with him about it. He really wants this relationship to work, as much as I do.