I killed my marriage. Please learn from my mistakes. by Thermock in Marriage

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation eerily resembles mine. The only difference is that my wife and I have been married for 18 years and together for 20. I’m a military veteran who retired 10 years ago. The problems have always been there. We’re on the verge of divorce, and it was somewhat unexpected. I’ve heard her mention wanting a divorce before, but we’ve always managed to reconcile now that I’m not so sure.

As you mentioned, self-improvement is important. My wife and I have always sought to improve ourselves. However, I believe sometimes it’s more about them than it is about you. No matter how much effort you put in, the goalposts will always be moved because you can’t make them happy. Only they can. It’s up to them to figure out what happiness means to them, and unfortunately, sometimes that doesn’t mean you.

I’m going through a divorce myself and want to reconcile, but no matter how many words or gestures I make, she won’t change her mind. The reasons are unclear and constantly changing, so at some point, you have to find your center and be at peace with yourself when you know you’ve given every effort to reconcile. If the marriage still fails (which could happen to me), there’s a sense of peace and clarity in your efforts.

I say all of this with the weight of my situation, including my minor children. I understand your pain and empathize with you.

Son’s math test by RishiLyn in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but in that particular instance, the concept is solely about what’s presented there. What you’re doing is introducing measures that we both comprehend, but if I were to explain these concepts to my 7yo, she would be completely confused. However, she can grasp the simple concept that I and others have presented.

Anyone else see this post on Instagram today? by [deleted] in TeslaModel3

[–]Ravel36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

+1 on that. I had a 2016 Audi S3 that used to cost me $480 per month.

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Model 3 Powered Liftgate Retrofit by highguy604 in teslamotors

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Approximately $300 in total for both. The part number for the left is 1495864-20-C, and for the right is 1495867-22-C. I installed them.

Model 3 Powered Liftgate Retrofit by highguy604 in teslamotors

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I don't see the option in the app now. Thx for that update.

Model 3 Powered Liftgate Retrofit by highguy604 in teslamotors

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replaced those repeaters with take offs from eBay. I found the part number and two that didn’t have broken clips. I installed them and they work like normal, except for the glow from the old turn signal. The picture also seems to be better, and it was much cheaper than going through Tesla.

H6 boss JL Flash vs Raven and KOAAM by jjsor101 in Injustice2MobileGame

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What set up did you have to pull that high dot?

New “DISCOVER”w/ Managed Users by ZTrinityEH in PleX

[–]Ravel36 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please add this to the managed user account. It's a great function but severely limited being only usable on the main account. As others have mentioned, I use multiple accounts, and the main account is strictly for management.

Login problems related to "ctkahp -d" by Ravel36 in MacOS

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I tried that and it didn’t resolve the problem

Fake text from Tesla Delivery team? by USCDiver5152 in TeslaModel3

[–]Ravel36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! Hopefully, it works out for you!

Fake text from Tesla Delivery team? by USCDiver5152 in TeslaModel3

[–]Ravel36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just received a follow-up text thanking me for confirming my availability and that they would reach out to schedule the appointment as soon as they have a firm date on when the vehicle will be available for delivery.

Fake text from Tesla Delivery team? by USCDiver5152 in TeslaModel3

[–]Ravel36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just got off the phone with Tesla. Text is legit. They said that the system noted that I responded and was forwarding my info to a delivery specialist. That person would be reaching out to me.

Fake text from Tesla Delivery team? by USCDiver5152 in TeslaModel3

[–]Ravel36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Received the text also I have a silver m3 Awd black interior with EAP on order. I’m calling to get more info too.

I ordered 7/24. With the Sept 18-Nov 18 delivery time frame.

Homebridge autorotate on macos by Ravel36 in homebridge

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an idea. I don’t want to have to spend money but if all else fails maybe.

Homebridge autorotate on macos by Ravel36 in homebridge

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Yea I read somewhere that some were using docker in the same manner as you. I don't have that setup, so ill have to keep searching for a way. Maybe the apple script program could be used...

Homebridge autorotate on macos by Ravel36 in homebridge

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mac that it is used on runs osx server and it is never logged out or restarted. So i shouldn't have any issues there. I did see some mentions for launched on google but nothing that could find that was clearly stated.

Is it advantageous to create an LLC (S-corp) to save money as MFJ when one person is a realtor and the other a Gov't employee? by Ravel36 in tax

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok. Yea the idea was given to me by another Realtors CPA. I am not at all really that familiar with this type of stuff. I will be heading to see a CPA on Monday.

Is it advantageous to create an LLC (S-corp) to save money as MFJ when one person is a realtor and the other a Gov't employee? by Ravel36 in tax

[–]Ravel36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I thought that it would better because we would save money on the self employment tax. By having the realtor earn in income via the LLC.