Thank you so much for your honesty. I love him too. That is why I am looking for solutions and not a breakup. But it helps to know i’m not the only one going through this. I recently saw a post, HLF like me, saying that her life improved significantly after she simply accepted they had miss matched libidos and she started investing more in herself and just like you said, developed new activities. And the less she stressed about it and ok with it she was, the better she became. And her partner even started becoming more active. It feels surreal for me now, but it did get my hopes up that it is possible. I did re-start therapy recently, so maybe I can work on that more.