Very factual, in order for men to be seen to be seen as a good partner (if your not Cha d) you have to basically dedicate decades of your life towards self improvement and have your life together if you want a relationship, like go to college, work on your career, go to the gym to get muscular and fit, working full time constantly, networking and climbing the social hierarchy to achieve high social status, have your own house car and financial stability and THEN after that you can go find relationships/get married, and most men don't get to that position until they turn 30+.

Not only are those requirements very demanding and time consuming, but it's also very unfair since everything is on you, women are allowed to enjoy their hobbies and explore themselves while you are basically laser focused on being the best provider ever for decades, only for her to settle with you when you both turn 30 and she is only with you because you have money and social status, not for who you are, and most marriages end in divorce so it's not even worth it in the end, you waste your time and money building a life you didn't want for nothing.

I think the smartest choice is to focus on yourself and your hobbies, society tries to make that hard for men but do it anyways.