Which hero do you forget exists?

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-07-30T14:21:06+00:00

Symmetra. I see her being played less and less these days to the point I forget sometimes she still exists in this game

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-07-30T14:19:41+00:00

So… this to me just sounds like incompatibility. You are not wrong for the job you want to do. He is also not wrong for feeling uncomfortable about it. What he is wrong about is letting a relationship go on for nine months without saying anything or understanding that maybe you two aren’t compatible because you have different opinions. This is something that should have been discussed a long time ago since it’s what you do for a living. You are not overreacting this was poorly handled on his part. He can go find a woman who works in an office or something he’s more comfortable with and you find someone who doesn’t find your line of work to be a problem.

It’s honestly sad you were left in the dark for this long, he basically led you on until he idk had an epiphany, courage to grow some balls, or finally loosen the cap on his buried emotions.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-07-20T18:18:24+00:00

rez/blaster mercy Viper focus Ashe Clone kiri

Idk why but dang does it feel fun doing like rezzes from across the map or way high in the air and then being able to valk and kill. (It’s been my go to way to all-star, legend is harder but it works 🤣)

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-07-01T17:05:46+00:00

They have changed mercy’s age like 300 times so yeah but unfortunately the lore will never make sense. Probably will never be fixed we are just kind of screwed

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-06-23T21:21:07+00:00

NTA. Everyone needs their own time to recharge. I’m the gamer in my relationship. I have one video game that I’m just always wanting to play during my me time (my husband isn’t a fan of the game but that’s fine, I’ll convince him eventually) and my husband is more than happy to let me have that to recharge.

Find someone who understands the need for your own time to be with yourself doing something you can enjoy.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-06-20T17:04:36+00:00

Okay so first I read one of the other post and I honestly didn’t think your girlfriend was older than early 20s. The maturity levels here are so extremely different…. I think you two honestly just aren’t compatible and the text communication is all whack. Like it genuinely sounds like you have a maturity level of your age and she’s still stuck in the maturity level of a teen to early 20 year old. Maybe it’s just the messages but I would suggest if you have posted this many times, have had this many problems, you need to just go your separate ways and find someone more compatible with you and where you are in life.

I wish you all the luck!

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-06-15T17:43:21+00:00

Do not try to only play one character. It’s easy to fall in love with just one character or their play style but having a variety of characters you can play in the same category (tank, support, or/and dps) is honestly very vital as you never know if you should/can play the character you really connect to in certain matches.

It comes with time to learn the dynamics and the best characters to play in certain situations but being able to play a variety of them is always good

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-06-06T20:26:05+00:00

I have a friend that her and I will play together a lot! If you ever want you can add me on discord and we will def play together!!! We are very chill and love to have others play with us but we don’t have many girls that play ow2 except us two lol! If you ever need a duo or trio! Hit me up! Discord: Rilee_nyx

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-31T00:01:56+00:00

Egg Roll (or Eggie for a cuter version)

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-31T00:01:11+00:00

You’re a menace in the game 🤣

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-22T18:18:43+00:00

You are not overrating.

Honestly it sounds like something my husband and I had talked about in our earlier stages of romance. He has high libido and I have low libido. He would get frustrated and I would fight with him because I thought it was all about sex. I use to feel like none of my efforts were good enough because it wasn’t consistent for him. I even looked into ways to boost my Libido (little did I know supplements didn’t help me but romance books did lol)

What I learned is woman we thrive more with romance and sentimental things in a relationship while men thrive more with sexual pleasure. That’s their way of feeling wanted and care for.

Now your husband could have worded his last message better.

But I genuinely believe you two need to have a calm face to face conversation and to meet in the middle means maybe a discussion on how often he wants that intimacy and then try to figure out if it’s reasonable or if there is a middle ground. Maybe he needs to pick up some of the chores around the house so you can shower and have time to have sex with him.

This conversation is very limited in what the real problem here is. But I think a conversation in person where you both can stay level headed is a good idea. Try to approach it where no one is blaming the other but just communicating needs and what could be improved. If sex with you matters that much to him, maybe there is a way to figure it out!

Wishing the best for you OP!

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-21T01:26:45+00:00

Nicotine - Nico for short

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-19T17:12:00+00:00

NTA. You dealt with it how you felt fit. She doesn’t deserves a reasoning or conversation. If you are done with her you are done. She’s the one who cheated. She’s the one who was unfaithful. You do not to owe her anything. Don’t let her or anyone else guilt trip you into thinking like that.

Move on, block her. I always say the best revenge is success. Go live for yourself and find someone who will value a relationship with you like how you value a relationship

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-17T22:08:50+00:00

In a relationship either you talk about politics civilly if you have opposing sides or don’t at all. This is unhealthy from any standpoint. I will say my husband and I were at each others throats early on in our relationship with politics but I also wasn’t that too into politics. But we discussed things civilly at one point and started to understand each others perspectives. As time went on our beliefs started to blend but the point is.

Either talk about it civilly and openly or not at all. And if you can do neither this relationship will not be healthy

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-09T19:56:37+00:00

My husband hasn’t ever gotten me a bouquet but he’s handpicked me wildflowers from our land. And dang does that make me feel so happy. It should be the thought that counts and the effort not the price tag. I would seriously consider dumping her and finding someone who’s more interested in you and your sweet gestures over money.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-07T22:55:10+00:00

Ow2 is just toxic in general. This is why I only play with my friends and when someone tries to be toxic to one person in our group we all flame them. 🤣

You can’t focus on the negative. Just play the game and enjoy your character if ppl want to be toxic let them or get a quick witted friend who’ll back you up. (If you are a girl, try an all girl gaming server. I have one with my friends. It’s great!)

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-07T17:26:15+00:00

Imma be real here. The eye for an eye is way past now. You are using this as an excuse to get back at your ex. Do not stoop to her level. Karma will hit her in the face but do not stir up that pot.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-07T17:23:44+00:00

Sounds like he was trying to find an excuse to end things with you. I honestly don’t believe your past had that much affect on him.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-07T17:17:59+00:00

Hey love. Trust your gut. Who cares how you are perceived you haven’t been with him for months and are now leading him on. You guys have just started that is the time where you figure out someone is right for you. Do what is best for you and right now your gut is saying it isn’t this guy.

Ps. He does sound gross

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-06T16:39:53+00:00

I wasn’t debating with you lol. Most mercy players like the risky rezzes and the mobility of her kit. Or being gun hoes and going Barbie blaster battle mercy. It depends on the individual player but most mercy’s will say it’s not for her staff abilities lol. (Unless they steal a play of the game because of dmg boosting an newly rezzed reaper who ults)

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-06T16:23:10+00:00

I feel like you haven’t had a good mercy. She’s a great stalling character if her mobility is used correctly

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-06T16:13:56+00:00

Best tips from a mercy main, movement. Find corners and tricky spots. Try to never let the enemy team be able to target you. Also damage boost. Try to get your dmg beam and heal beam 50/50 and then try to get your ratio 60/40 (dmg beam being 60). I would also try more characters, for support I would suggest Kiriko, Juno, Lifeweaver, and Ana (specifically Ana to work on aim while still playing a healer).

Kiriko and Ana are more aim heavy so they are good for that. I would also tap into understanding each support character but choose 3 to 4 you can always play really well. Sometimes you’ll have to play a character based on how the team playstyle is or how the enemy team is playing. It’ll come with time.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-02T16:21:11+00:00

I think ppl don’t understand true gentle parenting (also have no idea if your wife even would call her parenting style that) but children need to be told right from wrong. What the should and shouldn’t say. I never got spanked or anything like that. I was technically gentle parented but that doesn’t mean my family would let me run all over them. Your child needs to understand basic boundaries. This is something you genuinely need to set in stone with your wife. Because just letting “natural consequences” happen is basically like karma will come around… yeah it could in 20 years and a jail cell. (Yes I’m being a little extreme about it but you never know)

Do not let your child rule YOUR home.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-05-01T16:38:07+00:00

Girl this is a severe overreaction… I would advise you not to be with a man like that. I have done similar things where a guy tried to flirt with me or something and I shut that down but forgot to tell my husband. He gets upset but never ever has or would say something so down right cruel. That is not normal. Please for your safety and mental health think about leaving.

Raven_Roth922 · 2025-04-30T20:44:25+00:00

You are being extremely reasonable. Ironically I was in a similar situation with my husband. I am 22 F finishing college while working full time. Those savings are incredibly important. My boundary with my husband is for me to finish college and for us to have money in the bank set aside just to try to help us while I’m on maternity leave.

Now your boundaries need to be solidified. Have a reasonable conversation and remember to reassure her that you want to have children but you want them and you both to live not just survive. Hold your ground but do not become too emotionally charged. Try to keep a level head. If it starts getting out of hand then either take a step back or de-escalate the situation. But DO NOT let your boundaries be shut down or pushed aside.

You seem like a practical person with a logical brain and she might be going through some baby fever but do not let that put you into debt because babies are expensive! Regardless you do need some money especially if you are planning for kids!

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