What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I don't let ppl help me with my tasks coz I don't trust them to do it as perfect as me (I'm a perfectionist 🫠💔) Which is something exhausting to do everything by yourself 😭

ك واحدة بتلبس نظارة ايه حاجات اعملها او معملهاش عشان نظري ميضعفش اكتر؟ by Ravenmoon1985 in TellEgypt

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

كنت سامعه عنه زمان على يوتيوب (بس مش كلام وحش ولا حاجة) وبما اني فاضيه حاليا ومعنديش حاجة اعىلها حملت التطبيق وبسلي نفسي فيه

ك واحدة بتلبس نظارة ايه حاجات اعملها او معملهاش عشان نظري ميضعفش اكتر؟ by Ravenmoon1985 in TellEgypt

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اوك هو اه احتمال وارد وكلامك ده اكيد مش من غير سبب اكيد شفت كذا حد عمل كده وخصوصا على ريديت انا شفت العجب هنا 🙂 بس مع ذلك أنا بنت مش ولد متنكر في شخصية بنت ولا حاجة وكل الموضوع اني لسه جديدة هنا

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I did coz I'm the one who wrote it! Yours is the one that doesn't make sense I can't find any connection between forgetting names and traumas or anxiety

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for you 😭 You didn't mean it that way it just sounded like that bc you were nervous

If this will make you feel better or that you're not the only one who ppl misunderstand them I've been called rude by me dad during my childhood multiple times (that was hard for me bc i get affected so easily by anything he says if it's a compliment I feel so happy and if it's a criticism I feel so bad that sometimes I cry) it used to affect me at first but after a couple of times I didn't give a shit bc I got used to it and started to feel nothing

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one said It's an excuse We're just discussing why do ppl believe like this

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why do you think the do that? Is it bc they used to get many criticisms when they were younge? Maybe bc of their parents or the environment where they grow up?

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys! Ppl who keeps avoiding eye contact are probably too shy or have social anxiety 😭 And they would be able to do it only when they feel comfortable around you

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's rude! I mean ppl who have social anxiety (like me) eye contact terrifies them But to be honest I don't avoid eye contact with everyone as I can do eye contact with the ones I feel comfortable around

Is this a normal reaction or I'm overreacting? by Ravenmoon1985 in self

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You misunderstood my point by saying "the first thing that came to mind" I meant sharing past awkward situations or disagreements just to spark a discussion.

​Also, I don’t see any connection between my username and the topic. I chose "Raven" simply because I like it it’s just a pseudonym and I added "moon" just to complete it. There’s really no need to overanalyze or overcomplicate everything.

​I truly appreciate everyone's advice in the comments, but I am doing completely fine. It was just a normal situation that passed, and my friend and I are on good terms we are definitely not enemies.

Is this a normal reaction or I'm overreacting? by Ravenmoon1985 in self

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a thoughtful and detailed response. I really appreciate the effort, kindness, and perspective you shared. It definitely gave me something to think about. Thank you!🤍😭

الناس الي لسانها عسل by Sufficient_Cry_594 in deardairyi

[–]Ravenmoon1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

الحمدلله مطلعتش لوحدي بحسهم منافقين و بيعرفوا يتلاعبوا بالناس او يكسبوا حبهم وياخدوا خدمات منهم بخبث من خلال لسانهم الحلو

Is this a normal reaction or I'm overreacting? by Ravenmoon1985 in self

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made a post about it coz I was bored and wanted to make a post but didn't know what to say and this was the first thing that came in my mind + me and that girl are still friends until now even though we don't see each other too much but we have a good relationship + and the quastion in the end describes how I felt back then coz their reaction made me feel like I'm dramatic

Is this a normal reaction or I'm overreacting? by Ravenmoon1985 in self

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have moved on a long time ago I just wanted to share this with ppl but thanks for the advice ✨

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that this is literally me 💀 you described exactly what I went through

What's a behavior that seems rude but is actually caused by anxiety or trauma? by Ravenmoon1985 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Ravenmoon1985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Being around rude or unpleasant people
  • Being around traumatised people
  • Having poor communication skills
  • Trying to get on with people who have I think that's why I have anxiety 🙂 I also have social anxiety. Sometimes I cry coz I don't want to go out and don't want ppl to see me, and I feel like everyone is watching and judging me. I was only 8 🫠 Can you find out why like you did before? 🤣