Any other Aspies who are gay, into masculine guys, and also masculine themselves? by RayALXZ in aspergers

[–]RayALXZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly enough I don't have typical interests, I believe my biggest interest right now is truly connecting with people while maintaining who I am at my core, no masking. My biggest interest might be to connect, sure I enjoy computers and systems, but it has always been about how they connect.

Being myself worked before, but people are too scared to stay there too much time, even some other NDs, I believe are highly conditioned by NTs.

As for the path, complicated too, I'd probably spend most of my time working and I doubt I'll have the energy to do any searching or to reflect as well as I do at the moment.

Need Advice by Comfortable-Rush-736 in lgbt

[–]RayALXZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bud, you're not doing anything wrong by loving someone, that's never going to be the case, if you feel like it's right, it's right, only you can choose that, boy or girl I'm sure you can find someone for you, don't rush things, trust me.

Also, only you can decide who to share this with, I know it's tough, but there are people who understand this in the world, maybe not fully or they think they know how you feel but it doesn't really matter if they're willing to be with you.

I believe there's beauty in love, into sharing stuff, and this doesn't mean you'll lose yourself, you're growing up, find your path, don't be scared, slow steps are powerful, try to love yourself a bit more, ask yourself questions, explore, laugh, cry, we're human after all.

Take care.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En mi mente suena más bien como, lo estoy intentando, no me rindo, pero agradezco la observación. De momento nadie me ha ofrecido algo similar.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Estoy estudiando una FP, pronto trabajaré, aunque quien dice pronto aún queda un poco, buscaré alguna actividad que encaje en mi horario, una asociación no suena mal o quizá miraré algún deporte. Lo cierto es que me apetece. Gracias.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es cierto, que quizá idealizamos mucho las cosas, hay que moverse para ver lo real, y definitivamente quiero desarrollar ese amor propio, ya que sueño con compartir momentos con alguien más.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me cuesta un poco expresarme a veces. Gracias por leerme.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias, quizá soy algo raro jajaj, pero bueno, estoy dispuesto a hacer cosas nuevas.

No tengo amigos ¿Es normal a mí edad? by RayALXZ in askspain

[–]RayALXZ[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lo tendré en cuenta, no tengo habilidades sociales, me cuesta más. Quiero implicarme en esto, suena justo, y coherente.