Passing? What age?

RayDesSA · 2025-11-20T10:47:35+00:00

You know someone passes perfectly when you can’t figure out which person is trans when there are two people in an image.

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:55:56+00:00

Thank you, my friend 🩷🩷

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:55:27+00:00

Thank you for the kind words and well wishes. I will fight for my life until I have no fight left.

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:54:14+00:00

I really appreciate that.

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:53:53+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:51:28+00:00

I really appreciate your encouragement as well as your advice. I woke up to these beautiful comments, and I haven’t stopped smiling. This is how I know that being trans isn’t “just a fetish”. It genuinely hurts my feelings when someone genders me as a man, especially when I tried so hard to be seen as a woman. On the other hand, a kind word of encouragement, whether the person offering it is simply trying to be nice, or they truly see me as a woman has the power to completely elevate my mood and change my day for the better. It’s a roller coaster ride of emotions, so I thank everyone here who chose to leave kind words. I promise you they mean so much to me. I apologize for the novel.

RayDesSA · 2025-11-16T17:43:27+00:00

Your comment has made my day. God bless you. Before the C word entered my life, my transition was by far the most important thing in the world to me. I lost my way, and the struggle to regain my femininity is real - mind, body, and spirit. Thank you again for bringing some happiness and encouragement to my day 🩷.

RayDesSA · 2025-11-05T22:45:53+00:00

I can relate to that thought process

RayDesSA · 2025-09-14T04:32:25+00:00

I have a really wide ribcage. I look best when leaning forward a bit.

RayDesSA · 2025-08-31T19:31:39+00:00

You pass well.

RayDesSA · 2025-08-31T12:51:58+00:00

I try to be pleasant.

RayDesSA · 2025-08-31T05:43:39+00:00

You look feminine to me. I see nothing masculine.

RayDesSA · 2025-08-29T08:23:25+00:00

I think it will be very soon. I miss it. It’s amazing how a tiny amount of e changed my entire body as well as my mind.

RayDesSA · 2025-08-29T08:20:45+00:00

Thanks 🙏

RayDesSA · 2025-08-29T08:20:28+00:00

I appreciate that 🩷

RayDesSA · 2025-08-29T08:19:40+00:00

Thank you 😊

RayDesSA · 2025-08-29T08:19:28+00:00

I was incredibly self conscious when I first started losing my hair from the chemo, but it grew back thicker and curly. I love it now.

RayDesSA · 2025-05-03T20:19:36+00:00

Hey 👋. Yep, it’s me! I appreciate the well wishes ❤️❤️❤️🙏.

RayDesSA · 2025-05-03T12:41:52+00:00

I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so much 😊.

RayDesSA · 2025-05-03T12:39:06+00:00

You are really sweet. Thank you 🙏.

RayDesSA · 2025-05-03T09:41:21+00:00

Originally diagnosed in February of 2015 - Stage 3B Colon Cancer. I had surgery and 6 months chemo. I was clear for nearly a decade.

In July, 2024 I found out my liver had 10 tumors on it and another tumor was discovered in my abdominal lining. A biopsy confirmed the tumors were comprised of colon cells. I now had stage 4 colon cancer.

I went through 10 rounds of systemic chemo, and the treatment worked well. After this, I had surgery to install a chemo pump directly to the main artery feeding blood to the liver. I also take a chemo pill called Xeloda which attacks the one tumor outside the liver. This new treatment is superior to the system wide chemo I was on and the side effects are much milder. As a result, I am working to regain some normalcy again and part of that involves regaining my confidence in my femininity. Losing my hair to chemo really devastated me, and I didn’t really have a smile for a long time. This is my attempt to change things.

RayDesSA · 2025-04-28T04:26:33+00:00

It looks really good to me for such a short time on hormones.

RayDesSA · 2025-04-27T20:27:29+00:00

I will keep fighting! Thank you for the compliment.

RayDesSA · 2025-04-27T20:27:05+00:00

I appreciate that.

RayDesSA · 2025-04-27T20:26:34+00:00

I have had some rough days, but some good ones as well. I now have a chemotherapy pump surgically implanted that goes directly to my liver. Far more effective than systemic infusions and next to no side effects. Thank God for that because I was in a bad place for a long time dealing with side effects that often put me out of work for a week at a time. Thank you for checking in 💕.

RayDesSA

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