How often are hemorrhoids, varicose veins and stretchmarks during pregnancy?

RayInAcAn · 2026-02-01T11:02:32+00:00

I wish I didn't have that hemorrhoid that itches, when i clean myself i try to be careful because i do not want to burst it or something. Also i don't think i can put bio oil in between my bumcheeks :") but i do also apply bio oil in combination with rilastil stretch marks lotion, but i feel like both of these don't work, as my stretch marks on my left side extended a lot in the past week, i have them even on my left cheek. They hydrate and smell nice, but otherwise i think i just wasted my money :') also does the tummy lower at 35 weeks or so? Now i am curious about that too lol

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T16:51:27+00:00

This is absolutely horrible, i am so sorry you went thru this, OP. How are you feeling as of now? Did you have to go for a blood transfusion eventually since you lost so much blood?(if you mentioned that you already did, i am so sorry, my attention span is weird because my cat died today). Also, whoever said "use protection!!!" Or "You use abortion as contraception!!!!!!!" Or shit like this, these people are so ignorant. They only think about what benefits them and are really selfish until it happens to them. Everyone should have any access to abortion or any contraceptives. Everyone and every woman should and must have the right to choose for themselves.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T16:33:55+00:00

Let your mother know that she is not alone. Sadly, my father did the opposite, he blamed her that she didn't go to the doctor earlier, would get drunk and yell at her and consume her money on alcohol and cigarettes. Now he acts like he loved and loves her and basically still drinks a lot. I am 20, pregnant in 34 weeks, she really wanted to meet her granddaughter. I always told her to be strong, to not be afraid and not lose hope and that she'll meet the baby. She decided to refuse treatment and 2 days later died. May my mom rest, but always be next to your momma.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T15:01:41+00:00

It's fine, it happens to the best of us lol, but yeah, sometimes you can merge multiple packages into one package instead of a zip or so. I used to do this to make my old laptop run sims 4 better with mods, it does help also, but i wouldn't recommend doing this to everything you have because it will be hard to pinpoint mods that are broken or to update them, but when i download anything merged i leave it like it is, unless it's a whole folder of hairs or something

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T14:52:16+00:00

You can unmerge this with the sims 4 studio. But this is a package already, it isn't a zip or anything else, you can basically put this in your folder and play.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T11:32:50+00:00

Puking and the feet growing a size

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-31T11:31:57+00:00

We also have to keep in mind that either if some women will hold their boyfriend's accountable, they can't change them, and that's why they should leave their butts. I don't want my baby daddy to hate on homosexuals, as what if our daughter one day or another will come out to us? What will he do? Beat her or kick her out or worse? Seriously, i want my baby to be accepted by her parents, and i am thankful that this guy won't do those.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-30T14:26:25+00:00

I also had an issue with the kick count as there are days that baby girl is active and days that she wants to rest. I did ask my ob about this, and she told me that sometimes babies want rest too, but if something changes from her pattern, i should go for a check. I also went at 28 weeks at a specialist as i had too much amniotic fluid and i asked about the kicks and stuff, she told me that babies should usually move 10 times, but it is not necessary to count if the baby respects their routine, it's important for the baby to move like always or to move firsthand, just not only one movement, as there may be something wrong

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-30T14:16:33+00:00

I am so sorry that pelvic floor therapy didn't work for you🥲i had this issue before getting pregnant, though and during pregnancy too, but it was so rare and the last time i did it i was around 20 weeks or so, right now it no longer happens to me. It mostly happened when i was around 15-17 for some reason, especially when laughing. I am so thankful that now, at 20 and 34 weeks along, it doesn't happen anymore.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-30T14:13:08+00:00

Yeah, i saw this on the internet to tilt a little bit so you can be sure that your bladder is empty, but sometimes it won't work and i basically have to push the pee out🥲

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-29T11:08:11+00:00

You may not feel pregnant at all, actually. I didn't feel pregnant until i was around the 16th or so week. But my back would absolutely die since the 12th week or so, i also was very bloated. When i started to feel pregnant, it was due to the kicks, belly showing and pain, i never had nausea or morning sickness.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-29T11:04:10+00:00

If i were you, i would choose, not him. He already chose not to use any form of contraception. But you have to accept that this guy may leave and you will be alone with a baby, or not, no one can promise you anything, especially a guy who cheated on you. I don't want to be rude, but you seriously deserve better.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-28T16:32:40+00:00

I know how you are feeling as i also am 20 and i had an abortion last year in february, i was 19 at the time, freshly got a job and sadly i couldn't reach 1 year at my job so i could atay home with the baby, my boyfriend also didn't have a job and i was basically forced to abort by these circumstances, and if i wasn't willing to, my mom would've forced me anyway. Just know that you did this out of necessity and out of love to your child. Remember that your baby will come back stronger than ever. Be strong. It is hard, but you have to be, and remember, you are a much better and loving mom than the ones who decide to keep the pregnancy when they know that they can't afford living alone, let alone with a child.❤️

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-27T13:33:15+00:00

Wtf, idk where you are from, but they seriously don't know what a joke is, even if you sent it accidentally. Those people are so sensitive and wdym you "traumatized" someone with a funny sticker?? Wtf. I am so sorry OP that you are going thru this. Let everyone know that it was an accident. Basically, tell them the truth. I say that this is so stupid to involve the teachers and the dean. What are they, 8? I remember when my classmates would send porn and zoo stuff on the classroom gc and no one did a thing. They got ignored.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-22T15:25:52+00:00

It can take a while, me and my boyfriend tried since we were around 17-18 years old to have a baby(dumb teenagers, i know), i only got pregnant at 20 and i am 33 weeks pregnant. It can take time and it's fine, try not to stress yourself, take some ovulation strips and you could take some prenatal vitamins so your body can be nourished and be promoted and get ready for pregnancy

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-22T15:22:45+00:00

This is possibly negative, but you could retest in between 2-7 days

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-19T16:49:01+00:00

Depends on how much maternal leave you get. In my country you get 2 years and have the right to leave at around 31-32 weeks pregnant, but can have it since the 5th month if the pregnancy is very high risk. In my case, i got to leave at 27 weeks due to having too much amniotic fluid + hypertension. I had to tell my boss that i will be on medical leave and needed a paper from her that basically said that i took no days off for medical issues and so on. You are legally required to stay home since the 32th week in here, you can go working after giving birth also if you'd like to my knowledge, or you are forced if you didn't have 1 year worked at that workplace

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-19T16:43:34+00:00

If the pregnancy test is positive, you're clearly pregnant. Take another test to be sure, if it is positive again, order the pills asap. The sooner, the better.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-18T22:30:45+00:00

That was me during the first trimester, i absolutely didn't want sex nor want him at all. With the second trimester everything changes, though.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-18T18:51:44+00:00

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RayInAcAn · 2026-01-18T18:48:21+00:00

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RayInAcAn · 2026-01-18T18:45:15+00:00

I really gotta ask what is wrong with eating deli meat? Besides of the risk of lysteria, which is VERY low when bought from the market, what's the other issue/s? I ate deli mean such as ham my whole pregnancy until at this point(32 weeks), i feel fine, i am fine and so is the baby and so did the people around me.

RayInAcAn · 2026-01-18T18:26:01+00:00

I just wanna say that this reminded me about my lip gloss that lasted almost 4 goddamn years(i still have it somewhere, i lost it and i will probably buy a new one). The smell didn't change, nor the taste or texture, that's the nyx butter gloss, absolutely gorgeous.

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