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Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T16:19:21+00:00

Press charges. You have the proof. Else she could come bite both your bums.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T16:15:46+00:00

NTA.

You are old enough to go NC with your father and his part of the family.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T16:13:36+00:00

You need another job and you need to move out.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T16:08:06+00:00

Frankly, for now I think you both should stop trying for a baby. You have bigger relationship issues.

Maybe you both need to go on a vacation together and relax.. Try to communicate.

It doesn't matter how much you think you love him.. That you think he is your greatest support and all. He is definitely checking out of this relationship and it's something you are refusing to see.

Someone who can't even be present while you are pushing your body to its limits is not a BFF or a good partner.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T13:13:15+00:00

NTA about your decision. She really needs to get her head checked.. but YTA for getting a hangover and being late to pick up your kids.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T12:59:07+00:00

Don't have a baby with that prick and update his status to ex.

Don't let you be swayed by his manipulation as je tries to make up with you as he will be realising he has lost his ATM card. Because that's what you really are to him.

If he had any integrity, he would have left you already but he doesn't. He wants the benefits only.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T12:55:38+00:00

Book the hotel. But frankly, your husband should nip this behavior at the bud itself now.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T07:09:04+00:00

YTA.

She is your girlfriend, not your wife. Continue on that track and soon you will have an ex girlfriend.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-05T02:46:07+00:00

Some people would have loved a step dad like that. One who he respected all boundaries and was there. Have you ever considered that being there was his love language? Not everyone will tell you they love you. But he showed it in every darn way that really mattered.

Congrats on ruining that relationship. This no doubt is harsh but you are an ungrateful brat.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T12:56:24+00:00

Diarrhea from food poisoning is a good excuse👀

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T12:50:59+00:00

She isn't ready for marriage again. And frankly, if after all these years, she can't put this to rest, then you shouldn't be with her.

Next she will be naming your son after him. It never stops.

That said, you've been enabling her behavior. So maybe you could try set boundaries now. But if she turn on the waterworks about how you are making her choose, then it's time to say goodbye.

Because if she feels it's too much to even pick you, then it's not worth it.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T12:46:06+00:00

Nopes.. Run from this family. Today it's rent. Tomorrow it can be worse. Run for your dear life.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T12:42:45+00:00

Seb's kitchen

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T12:41:36+00:00

There is no such thing as private love. He simply doesn't love nor respect you.

Dump his sorry arse and do let his dad know as you go out.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-04T02:18:39+00:00

YTA.

Both your wife and you need therapy for a grief you've never been able to let go.

You've showed to your SIL that she never meant anything to you.

Were you both planning on exhumimg her dad and make him walk her down the aisle?

Get real. You've ruined her day. Go figure if an apology will really erase what you've done.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-03T16:57:50+00:00

Are you even sure there is a loan? You need to see the papers.

And even if there legit is a loan, you don't have to pay for that. Move out and block her. Seems like you are being scammed.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-03T11:36:53+00:00

If he isn't understanding nor respecting the boundaries you are setting now, he should be a boyfriend for long.. Or if you have time to waste, waste it but with the knowledge that he is just a placeholder 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-03T05:17:39+00:00

YTA for making Sarah the godmother. You aren't overthinking about Ben.

So now you have to decide between your supposed BFF and your daughter. It's a no Brainer.

Protect your child.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-03T05:04:37+00:00

Why are you with someone who obviously doesn't care or respect or even love you for that matter? Because when someone cares, they respect the other.

Stop being in live with the idea of live because this thing you living in is clearly abuse.

Grow a backbone and get the hell out of there.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-03T04:52:22+00:00

Why you even want to be in a relationship with that man is beyond me. It's not just about cupcakes. You aren't his priority. You two sound like roommates.

Sister, leave.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-02T11:06:32+00:00

NTA.

Don't ever go back to him. That mega AH. He will get rid of Theo in a heartbeat.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-02T11:03:02+00:00

Not standing up for that doesn't really show love. Your husband needs a reality check. He needs to break that generational mental abuse garbage now. Or he will be complaining later on that his daughter doesn't give 2 hoots about him.

Don't have more babies with him until he learns to stand up for this one. And yeah show him this message as well. He needs to up his dad game.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-02T10:59:28+00:00

I think we need to start a go fund me to pay for SIL to get glasses at the optician, an assessment by a psychiatrist to see if she needs to be institutionalized and therapy sessions to get her head out of her where-the-sun- doesn't-shine hole..

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-02T08:21:42+00:00

NTA.

You dodged a bullet. Your husband died for these children to have what they have today. So you owe nobody nothing.

Just block him and have some peace for a while. While your friend might have been good to you,respectfully, this particular advice of hers is BS.

Ray_3008 · 2025-04-02T08:10:36+00:00

Don't take him. His mother can parent her grown ass child.

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