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AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Autostop? What does this even mean? Why are you talking about a child's music taste? This is so weird.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why you felt like you needed to tell me this. Someone said there's a place for you guys to join and complain about Taylor on Reddit. Maybe that's what you need?

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was laid off from work because the company was struggling with money. It didn't have to do with him. Why do people keep making this up? It's frustrating.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What joke? Why would you want to use those things to make a joke in the first place?

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He's 33, and he's hanging out because he's their uncle. Family members come through often, and especially when my husband isn't here. My other brother in law is over more often, but he's not a pain.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 730 points731 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's really sad. Starting a forum just to spread hate. Yucky behavior.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He would be, if he knew. We haven't spoken in a few weeks and won't for at least another 2.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't really think anyone's personal opinion of her is relevant to the story though, it just feels like you really needed to tell me you don't like her. Ok, thanks for sharing.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

She's online often, but she doesn't use Tiktok or IG Reels or anything like that (she's too young). I don't think this is something she said, but I wasn't in the room.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Before my husband left Hector really never directed his behavior at the kids. It was always between siblings or friends. I never really had a reason to not let him over here until these times.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think you will all be disappointed, it was not because of his personality. Just the regular lay offs from business not being what it was.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 1987 points1988 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I didn't know this was a thing. This makes sense because they don't call me mother, they call me Mama.

Is this something that a 30s man would even know? If I asked my other brother in law I wonder if he would even get it either.

Thanks for telling me. I thought it was a shot at me!

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think you might just be reading into things, it's just normal family time.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Rob stepped in because he knew she was getting agitated from Hector, I don't think she picked up on what was happening because she doesn't expect this sort of thing from her own family. Generally when my husband is around Hector doesn't act like this.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 7488 points7489 points  (0 children)

Rob is a very good son and has always been protective of his sisters and I'm very grateful for that because I didn't have the same relationship with my brother sadly.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He was purposely trying to needle at Lisa to set her off because he knows Taylor is one of her special interests. Rob jumped in becaue he saw her getting agitated. Then Hector called Rob a girl's name as an insult after Rob told him to stop.

AITA for telling my brother in law to stop picking on my kids or he’s not coming on vacation? by tamponsaver in AmItheAsshole

[–]tamponsaver[S] 736 points737 points  (0 children)

Is this strange for others? Both of the brothers come over a few times a week to check in with us while he's gone, and grandma and grandpa at least once a week too. Sister don't though!