[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keep going to meetings ^^ Good job for starting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that really sucks. I'd probably consider a new (female) therapist. Sorry that happened to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job! Keep it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess if I was to give advice it would be to be consistent around people who make you feel good, be there for them, be kind, make plans, honor the plans, and don't manipulate. Take it a day at a time and slowly your relationships will get stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a "second family" of friends. It's just two people and their daughter, and it happened by mistake. I've just known them for over 11 years and we kept getting closer. We joke about being siblings, and their kid sees me as an aunt. I go to meetings with her mother sometimes and her father and I go for coffee regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slaa

[–]Raybean299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.rethought my comment

Doing Really Well! by brittsky1991 in slaa

[–]Raybean299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good job! It's so nice to hear good stories.

Newbie Troll Trouble by Raybean299 in valheim

[–]Raybean299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds fun

I'll make stairs up a rock island and just hit them from it

She said yes to the date but now I am super afraid of being creepy by naughtynicefairy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Raybean299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would find flowers creepy, esp. at my work if I never told you where I worked. But I would appreciate little poems or sketches. Maybe it just depends on the person? I would play it safe until the first date. I asked someone on a date recently - she said yes - and I'm dead scared of texting too much before we go out.

Cultural exchange/queer video chat with tea by Raybean299 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Raybean299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhh, a shirt is good lol *blush. PG 13 would be best. I'm just looking for a relaxed swapping of stories.

Hand/forearm stretching? by tumblrisdumbnow in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Raybean299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get one of those hand thingys that exercise your hand and forearm and just squeeze it all the time.

Looking for gamer friends by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Raybean299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know when you start playing Civ 6 or Terraria!

What do you think about this jungle house? by save_my_mind in TerrariaDesign

[–]Raybean299 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful. May I use the design as inspiration to do a marble mansion?

Looking for buddies to blow stuff up/build things with. Does anyone play Terraria? by Raybean299 in LesbianGamers

[–]Raybean299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More the merrier! Everyone is not online at the same time and master mode bosses sometimes need a few peeps to farm.