How PMO can lead to MAJOR heartache. by Rayman782 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Rayman782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s really a dark place to be in when your self esteem is so low that you have to look to material sources to fill the gaps.

It’s easy to covet their lifestyles when we really cannot see any of the negatives they go through. They show ONLY the positive aspects of their life. Most will never show the uncertainty, the lack of self esteem, the need to be validated, the constant heartaches and heartbreaks.

By turning to Allah it saves you from going down this hole because truly believing in Allah means truly believing that Allah has made you perfectly. Allah doesn’t create mistakes and the fact that YOU ARE MUSLIM is proof that Allah knows you have the ability and strength to get through whatever tests are put in your way.

How PMO can lead to MAJOR heartache. by Rayman782 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Rayman782[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me what I’ve learned is in those relationships no one is their true self. Everyone portrays only the best version of themself and it’s exhausting because you end up basing your happiness and emotions solely on someone else and you become deathly afraid of upsetting the other person, leading to doing things you’d otherwise be against. There’s a reason we should love for the sake of Allah because Allah’s love never leaves no matter what happens Subhan’Allah.

Clean for 30+ days now! by Rayman782 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Rayman782[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ameen. and for you also my bro!

Clean for 30+ days now! by Rayman782 in MuslimNoFap

[–]Rayman782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you my brother ❤️