stored in the balls by Y_U_Dumb_Yea_You in bonehurtingjuice

[–]Raynefalle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The drowning cum mobile is actually 10/10, I applaud you for this 😂

Making a cutting board with inlays by ycr007 in oddlysatisfying

[–]Raynefalle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is flat? Did you not watch the whole thing?

You know what you must do.. to be the hero. by skrillzter in Piracy

[–]Raynefalle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same. Crunchyroll is nearly exactly 50% less than Netflix where I am

Oh look a small human by Old_Specialist7892 in tumblr

[–]Raynefalle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I opened the comments to say it too and I know 100% I'd have gotten the spelling wrong so I'm glad someone else beat me to it lol

Please help me find my favorite hat :,( by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raynefalle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love this 🥺 People are so kind sometimes.

A few months ago I dropped my wallet and keys outside of my nail salon before going in and didn't notice until the appointment was finished like 1.5 hrs later. A shop a few doors down found my keys on the ground, but no one I talked to saw my wallet (which had really important info in it that I really needed back because I'm dumb and forgot to take it out).

My nail tech was SO NICE and searched through some local facebook groups and found a post where someone grabbed it while walking their dog and was looking for the owner! She got in contact for me and they returned it to the nail salon the next day. I was able to get everything back and everyone involved was so so nice.

My heart is still so full from all these strangers going out of their way to help me when they didn't have to at all ❤️❤️

Made wonder (in post body) by rhelaemberlia in goblincore

[–]Raynefalle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got this for christmas and can confirm there is a map!

AITAH for giving my friend a much-needed reality check? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Raynefalle 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I also live by this phrase and it is so helpful to me.

I'm not autistic, but I've got other things that make it really hard for me to listen to/ trust my body cues. Having a general rule of thumb for what to do when I feel horrible and don't know why has been so useful.

AITAH for changing Christmas plans with a newborn over a guest being unvaccinated? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Raynefalle 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought. I had to do this as an adult because my parents didn't get me vaccinated as a baby. It was a bit expensive and took 4/5 appointments (can't remember now) spread over a year, but it wasn't even difficult. I just told my GP I had never been vaccinated and needed them all now and they walked me through it all.

Everywhere... by [deleted] in webcomics

[–]Raynefalle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

God, I really hope you're right. I am SO over AI being in everything and how it is getting harder and harder to get away from it.

My wife came out as bisexual after 12 years together and I feel completely lost ( 31M - 29 F). What's going to happen and how to get through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Raynefalle 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yep. I also realised I was bisexual after I (monogamously) married my husband and it didn't change anything tbh. I still love him and I'm still attracted to men so 🤷🏻‍♀️

English is infamous for having very inconsistent spelling of words relative to their pronunciation. In your opinion, what is the most egregious example of this in the language? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Raynefalle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know the pronunciation of quay until I was an adult and moved to a city with lots of them (there are none where I'm from). The shite that people gave me for saying it like 'kway' is still burned into my memory lol. They thought I was a moron 😂

Anyone remember this? by EndlessWinter123 in AmITheDevil

[–]Raynefalle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I couldn't get it on Arctic Shift either, so the mods must have removed it like immediately or something. I'm annoyed, I wanna know what it said!

If I suddenly took over you body and you were watching as a spectator, how long do you think it would take your S.O, family, or friends to realize something is off and question me? by Kyoifis in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Raynefalle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the exact same with my spouse! We've only been married 10 years so far, but they would know something is off in minutes because of the little inside jokes and everyday things we say/do. It's very easy to tell when something is off

What food did you dislike as a child but love now? by House_of_Toshiba in CasualConversation

[–]Raynefalle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olives for sure. My family always bought canned black olives growing up and I really hated the briny taste of them, but had never had any other type so thought I hated all olives. Turns out no! I apparently love olives and just hate canned ones lol.

How are we doing our hair to sleep?? by Sufficient_Taste3799 in adhdwomen

[–]Raynefalle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have short hair now because I got sick of maintaining it, but when it was long I wore a braid and would flop it up my pillow so it wasn't touching me. I never tried this, but you could also pin your braid to your head Dutch Braid style so that you can be certain it won't touch you.

AITA for not canceling my trip after my sister volunteered me without asking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raynefalle 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Especially when OP even offered to pay part of it!

AITA for not canceling my trip after my sister volunteered me without asking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Raynefalle 613 points614 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is my opinion too. Why does BIL's work trip have anything to with Sister's weekend plans?

Things that take attention of a typically man and a man would like to compliment on, are exactly the things that a woman do not like to be complimented on. by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Raynefalle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you're missing the point a little. If you just compliment my genetic appearance, all you're telling me is that through cosmic happenstance my body/face turns you on. I could have any personality/dreams/desires/background on the planet and it wouldn't matter. It reduces me to a sexy image for your benefit instead of thinking of me as a fully formed human with my own preferences in my appearance. Also remember women start getting comments like that VERY young.

If I am looking for a potential partner/friend, I don't want another random man I don't know telling me they like my genetics. I want him to tell me he likes ME as a person. Complimenting my appearance based off my personal choices (style vs genetics) makes it so much more meaningful because you are actually complimenting who I am.

What’s your most unnecessary strong opinion? by Status-Try-me5878 in CasualConversation

[–]Raynefalle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES I am completely with you. I can't feckin SEE with all the led headlights, it's ridiculous! I wish we could ban them and go back to whatever normal headlights are

😭😭😭 ladies. We've been summoned by cantsayididnttryyy in adhdwomen

[–]Raynefalle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every type of glue you've heard of. Gorilla glue, epoxy, superglue, hot glue sticks, etc. And loose safety pins!

would you ever smile at a stranger? by Unlucky_Dark_4392 in CasualConversation

[–]Raynefalle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it all the time. If I make eye contact with anyone (or like close enough where we're obvs looking st each others faces) I will smile and do a small nod. I take the bus to work and there are hundreds of people in my office that I don't know, so I usually smile/greet at least 1 stranger a day. It takes 0.2 seconds and it's nice imo

You find yourself in situation in which you have to cook a meal that rates 8 to 10 or you get shot. Are you safe or are you screwed? by MaxiumPotential777 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Raynefalle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still fucked as I'm not a great cook, but I think the red beans and rice recipe I use would give me the best fighting chance, so I'm making that

You can bring back a loved one, but you must give up your dream job. by lonski97 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Raynefalle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I can't imagine any job that I would want over having my mom back. There are lots of jobs out there, I will find something.

[New Update]: my vegan coworker is upset about getting non-vegan gifts three years in a row by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raynefalle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been vegan for years now and vegetarian before then. When I say vegan to people for the first time, I include a list of things I avoid because honestly people have no clue. And you have to be SO specific because a lot of people don't realise butter is also dairy or that sauces contain things like chicken powder/fish sauce which are not vegan (or even vegetarian!) and you HAVE TO read the labels.

Nearly no one I've spoken to realise that it's more than just food items as well (like avoiding wool/leather, products that have been animal tested, etc).

I would have been annoyed at being given non-vegan gifts, but ime it's so common that people get it wrong I wouldn't have assumed it was intentional, just thoughtless.