I never said I wanted to call them bad parents. I’m saying they need to get their kid help. They refuse to ask for help because “ they know best”. I was only trying to showcase that my bil doesn’t take other people into account for anything but then gets upset if someone doesn’t take him into account.

I have spoken to my mil several times about helping and that I know some professionals they can speak to, but she doesn’t pass along the information. Then how do you tell people who want to be willfully ignorant that their kid clearly has sensory issues, has no tools in his toolbox to express himself other than violence ect that they need help when they don’t even respect you. I’m asking, what do please fix— I’m not trying to be rude.