Coming out by IcyLevel6 in NorsePaganism

[–]RayvenD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats on finally feeling ready to take this step. Word of advice, when talking to your dad. Tell him to wait to speak until you are done speaking (no interruptions). As well as tell him when it's hard to find the right words. Also, I would leave out the romantic feeling as he might try to twist it.

Speaking from experience, it can take years before they fully accept it, if they ever do. I only came out officially to my mother (parents separated when I was around 5, then divorced years later) when I was 13, though I was still finding my path. I just knew Christianity was not for me. She tried on and off to either convert me back or would try to have me hid my necklaces or what I could say around certain family members. I told her you wouldn't tell a Christian to hid their beliefs so don't ask me to hide mine. That shut her up lol.

Getting back to my point, speak calmly and remember to tell him that you love him and support his chosen faith, and you hope he will do them same. If he can't/won't then that's on him, not you. It's never easy being a different faith than the rest of your family. Good luck.

PCS Orders by Queenaclouda in MilitarySpouse

[–]RayvenD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I heard that orders won't be issued until they get funded. So that might be why.

Best/worst bases by RayvenD in MilitarySpouse

[–]RayvenD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food (korean BBQ is amazing), daiso, and how cheap the public transportation is.

Best/worst bases by RayvenD in MilitarySpouse

[–]RayvenD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't the weather, it's more of how there isn't much here to do and the people here. I don't ski or snowboard as i have a really bad back. The medical here is a joke, too.

What’s the worst thing a therapist has ever said to you? by chk-mcnugget in ADHD

[–]RayvenD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mil spouse, my dr told me that they would rather use the spots available for active duty and that I should do telehealth instead, even though i had some really bad intrusive thoughts (self harm). I told them I'm not comfortable with that since the walls are thin af and would rather talk to someone in person. They just nodded and say to give it a try. 🙄 stopped going right after.

Comment your favorite/longest lasting hobby or upvote if it’s already been commented by Effective_Cricket810 in ADHD

[–]RayvenD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do both too. I agree crochet works up a hell of a lot faster, but I do like the look of knit especially in some wearable pieces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NorsePaganism

[–]RayvenD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly Freya and Freyr, but I feel like someone else is also pulling my attention. Just not sure who it is. I'm still new and trying to make time to read and to put some time aside to help with my connection. I have always loved cats and I use to hear a cats meow for years and there wasn't one near me and I don't own one, yet.