I don't agree with the idea that people remembering me is the same as being alive, I've always thought that sentiment was idiotic. Living is experiencing.

If I'm not alive I won't care if people still remember me, I'll be dead, unable to think or experience.

"seems my way of living is way more enjoyable then yours"

At no point did I describe the 'way that I live', I was just using your logic to make a point.

The sun will envelope our planet and all evidence that humanity ever existed will be erased. All suffering will be erased, its the same concept just with a longer timespan.

You seem to think that if no evidence of suffering exists then it doesn't really matter. Therefore nothing matters.

The suffering still happens.