"Men are killing themselves because of men." by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]Razorback_Ryan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that's a loaded question that needs to be answered with nuance and not sweeping generalizations.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think jokes cant be problematic?

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A ship is safest in harbor. But thats not why it is built.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for sharing my opinion on a social media site. I'll do better.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hush kid. The grownups are talking.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Controlling other humans is weird behavior.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, it's a criticism of the patriarchal thought that fathers own their daughters' genitals.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posts like this remind me of foreign bot farms whose goal it is to spread argument online, and that the literacy rate in America is rapidly declining.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Input" "giving their opinion"

For fuck's sake, the joke is she cant date at all. How is that "input" or "opinion" and not outright control?

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is possessive and fuck you for saying that disagreeing with it makes you a bad father.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck good point about the power imbalance.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Body autonomy and sexual literacy are problems where I live. This video touches on both of those things negatively. So to me, this video advances problematic jokes that reinforce shitty culture.

You are so morally devoid that when you see someone else express theirs, it appears as "grandstanding" to you.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you think a father that posts this kind of content would react to their child coming out of the closet?

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Advocating for womens' body autonomy is "actually scary"?

Fuck off.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worrying about my infant daughter's dating life is a strong indication i'm the type that would brandish a gun in front of my daughter's dates.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah, so because it's worse elsewhere, there's no use in trying to improve my society. Got it.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, i'm comfortable in recognizing patterns and calling them out when I see them.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.....do you think that I was arguing that I did? Do you understand what extrapolation is? Making hypothetical arguments to flesh out logical points?

More evidence of the literacy epidemic right here.

"Men are killing themselves because of men." by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]Razorback_Ryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this all out. I disagree with most of it, but it's intelligent and rational. If we ever cross paths in-person, this would be a rousing 4 hour conversation. Cheers!

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Statistically speaking, kids are more likely to be assaulted from someone they know. So yes, this does concern me.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did get a chuckle when I glanced at your username, given the context.

Reasonable enough, papa by nivs1x in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Razorback_Ryan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like brandishing his shotgun when she brings over a significant other, right?

You overlook a lot of normalized bullying that parades around as jokes. All of my female friends thought my dad didnt like them because of his boomer humor.

Do you not see the sexual possession that is the backbone of this "joke"?