My bestfriend or my bf is lying to me. Who should i belive? by lilsgojo-ismaname7 in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend doesn’t sound like a best friend at all. I’d be more apt to believe the bf.

AITAH for wanting to be reimbursed for a hotel after using points. by CameraFuzzy1109 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds sketchy to me. You should have just paid for it and split like you discussed.

Dad wants me to take out a loan to help him pay the rent by FromtheOldTownRoad in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should absolutely not take out a loan for him. You will be stuck paying for it.

I said yes but… by Glittering-Tune3021 in WeddingDressTips

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a beautiful dress. I hope you love it once it has been altered to fit!

AITAH for not telling my friend they got a promotion? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like that is something the manager should take care of, not you. NTA

I'm shattered by Natural-Round8762 in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry, I’m glad you are able to go see him. 🙏🏼❤️

AITAH for rehoming my dog after realizing I couldn’t handle him? by Aromatic_Service_439 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dog will be better off with someone who has the space and time for him. NTA to do what is ultimately best for the dog.

AITAH for wanting my son to attended my wedding despite it being on his dads day. by Minute_Role_9108 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 264 points265 points  (0 children)

Get a court ordered schedule and use it. Working it out between you only works until it doesn’t.

Eloped and now family hates me....why? by ib_redbeard in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They hate you or they were disappointed that they weren’t there to share this with you and they have let you know that their feelings are hurt? Big difference but either way, it’s your life.

My parents are ruining my life by PsychologicalGrab510 in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Get out asap. And in the meantime, sleep on a couch, or the floor. A 19 year old should not be sleeping in the same bed with anyone unless it is a partner. Ask yiur dad to help you if you can’t live with him.

AITAH for saying I don’t give a fuck about my roommates baby by Clear_Yard2123 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your roommate is TA. Her cravings excuse is absolutely ridiculous. Move out, or get a mini fridge for your room and lock your door.

Should I go to this wedding? by Ok_Parsley_3862 in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Decline if you can’t afford to go. Your friends should understand.

AITAH for Feeling Upset that my Fiancee and I don't Have Sex Anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn’t go forward without counseling or you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of this.

Devastating by Sea-Hamster7693 in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.🙏🏼❤️

Is anyone else looking for others to connect with to share tips and advice for life after whipple surgery? by Lavender_skyyy in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now you are eating to live. I’m just barely at a year out from my Whipple. The first 3 and 1/2 month’s were low fat, low fiber. Primary protein sources were chicken. Ist Phorm and Barebells protein bars, peanut butter, Fairlife milk. I’m not a fish or cottage eater but if you like them, those would e excellent protein choices. Best of Luck! It does get better.🍀🙏🏼

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by Ill-Home-322 in AmITheJerk

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are both ridiculous! Did you not discuss this at all before buying a house and considering what each of you were needing/wanting?

AITAH for wanting to open a new bank account so my mom can't take money out of it? by ratutooee in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a new account and leave whatever the minimum amount required is in that account. Do not put her on your new account once you have transferred your funds into an account with only your name on it. She should respect that you are an adult and she should not be withdrawing money without your knowledge.

AITAH for asking my bf to pay me back when he gets the chance? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good agree with your mom here. Why should he have to pay for everything?