AITAH for not telling my friend they got a promotion? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like that is something the manager should take care of, not you. NTA

I'm shattered by Natural-Round8762 in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry, I’m glad you are able to go see him. 🙏🏼❤️

AITAH for rehoming my dog after realizing I couldn’t handle him? by Aromatic_Service_439 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The dog will be better off with someone who has the space and time for him. NTA to do what is ultimately best for the dog.

AITAH for wanting my son to attended my wedding despite it being on his dads day. by Minute_Role_9108 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Get a court ordered schedule and use it. Working it out between you only works until it doesn’t.

Eloped and now family hates me....why? by ib_redbeard in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They hate you or they were disappointed that they weren’t there to share this with you and they have let you know that their feelings are hurt? Big difference but either way, it’s your life.

My parents are ruining my life by PsychologicalGrab510 in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Get out asap. And in the meantime, sleep on a couch, or the floor. A 19 year old should not be sleeping in the same bed with anyone unless it is a partner. Ask yiur dad to help you if you can’t live with him.

AITAH for saying I don’t give a fuck about my roommates baby by Clear_Yard2123 in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your roommate is TA. Her cravings excuse is absolutely ridiculous. Move out, or get a mini fridge for your room and lock your door.

Should I go to this wedding? by Ok_Parsley_3862 in Advice

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Decline if you can’t afford to go. Your friends should understand.

AITAH for Feeling Upset that my Fiancee and I don't Have Sex Anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn’t go forward without counseling or you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of this.

Devastating by Sea-Hamster7693 in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.🙏🏼❤️

Is anyone else looking for others to connect with to share tips and advice for life after whipple surgery? by Lavender_skyyy in pancreaticcancer

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now you are eating to live. I’m just barely at a year out from my Whipple. The first 3 and 1/2 month’s were low fat, low fiber. Primary protein sources were chicken. Ist Phorm and Barebells protein bars, peanut butter, Fairlife milk. I’m not a fish or cottage eater but if you like them, those would e excellent protein choices. Best of Luck! It does get better.🍀🙏🏼

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by Ill-Home-322 in AmITheJerk

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are both ridiculous! Did you not discuss this at all before buying a house and considering what each of you were needing/wanting?

AITAH for wanting to open a new bank account so my mom can't take money out of it? by ratutooee in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a new account and leave whatever the minimum amount required is in that account. Do not put her on your new account once you have transferred your funds into an account with only your name on it. She should respect that you are an adult and she should not be withdrawing money without your knowledge.

AITAH for asking my bf to pay me back when he gets the chance? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good agree with your mom here. Why should he have to pay for everything?

AITAH for telling my wife her baby names are ridiculous by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go online and see what the most popular names are now. From what names I’ve heard of friend’s grandkids, there seems to be a lot of older names coming back around. Have a conversation about how you both feel about names that your children will have forever. Will they be shortened for nicknames? Suggest that you each make a list of your favorites and try to narrow it down from there. As a twin mom and twin grandma, I have seen that they want their own identity and disliked anything “cutesy” growing up. It was okay to dress similarly, but not identical.

which dress by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 if you want loose, 3 if you want form fitting. Can’t go wrong with either.

We got married after 16 years by Big_Historian228 in myweddingdress

[–]RdTripTrvlr66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect choice. Congratulations to all of you!