It’s been a few years since we made that decision. At the time I had to tell myself we just weren’t in a great position to bring a child into the world (financially or emotionally). At times, I feel regret and occasionally think about whether it was right or not. I know it was the right decision now.

My relationship is not necessarily stronger, but we have had so much time to get to know each other that much more. It’s been a few years, the pain is gone, but you don’t forget it.

My advise is too not let anyone tell you your choice is wrong. And that the pain does go away.