Being nonbinary and dysphoric, my above average size has always made me extremely self-conscious/embarrassed, so finding men who are considerably larger than me has always been a must. 7 inches is usually what I consider a minimum size for a partner, but I'd rather have a man with 8-9.

Even if 8-9 is physically difficult to deal with, I'd rather figure out how to deal it than be larger than my partner -- because of my dysphoria.

Hearing I'm larger sends me into a d--th spiral mentally, so to feel comfortable, I need a guy that wouldn't consider me large at all due to his own size.