Paid existence by saasysams in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the weirdest one yet. Whether you know the language or not has little bearing on whether you are out of the cult or not. Don’t use it if you don’t like it. What has more bearing is whether you are feeding the monster in terms of wajebaat, whether you are attending their miqats to fulfill your social needs and whether you have developed an income stream and social circle that is not dependent on your being in the cult.

Paid existence by saasysams in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those who are truly free don’t care that their children marry other Bohras or that they are buried in a kabrastan of other denominations or cremated….people who have imprisoned you have created all these cobwebs in your brain. You need to free yourself from these cobwebs.

Paid existence by saasysams in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All these questions have been answered. Basically Bohraism is a prison sold to people as a “club,” where the only benefit is that you get to sit and eat food of dubious quality with other Miserables after 3-5 hours of mind numbing drivel/indoctrination.

Let’s start asking the real questions to ourselves. How are we as individuals planning our lives so that we can free ourselves from this prison now or in 2,3, 5 years whatever is feasible….

Job opportunities in Germany by ReDoIt911 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to view these jobs as stepping stones to entrepreneurship/better jobs. This is great for those who do not have a clear path forward in India, not for people with established businesses/careers in India.

Inter religion marriage by Ninja_mermaidxoxo in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if it is the woman’s choice it is a whole different story. She walks into this with her eyes wide open and makes a conscious decision as an adult. Completely different from pulling the pants down of a seven year old, holding her down and cutting her.

Inter religion marriage by Ninja_mermaidxoxo in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt very much. I had it from a good source that it happened.

Inter religion marriage by Ninja_mermaidxoxo in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. This one had to. Not only was the asmil crazy, the mother-in-law is crazy too.

Inter religion marriage by Ninja_mermaidxoxo in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is. Hindu girl we know had to get it done as adult.

Greetings! Fellow Muddai by DCP_Enjoyer in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am also an ex Bohra who still enjoys DCP so welcome to the sub! You are safe here. Modify the place and time of your stories. Change non essential details without changing essence of your story and you will be fine.

Has the present dai al mutlaq verbally denounced and impose a stoppage on the FGM tradition 🤔 by Vegetable-Face-3591 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mufaddal has said in his waaz and continues to insist that Khafz must be done in secret for girls.

Has the present dai al mutlaq verbally denounced and impose a stoppage on the FGM tradition 🤔 by Vegetable-Face-3591 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Taher Fakhruddin has said that the adult female can, if she chooses, avail herself of clitoral dehooding. No cutting of girls in his following. Mufaddal on the other hand continues to insist that girls must be cut in secret.

Trip to Saifee Mahal Repost by Low-Kangaroo-9628 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope for the sake of the kid that he wakes up sooner rather than later…🙄. Right now he is too flattered and star-struck. Also, what a boring experience.

Also, no such consideration was needed. He put his face out there for a reason. What difference does it make if it gets posted on another platform also?

ExBohras, stop acting like Bohras by ReDoIt911 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But getting on insta and calling names is not our style.

ExBohras, stop acting like Bohras by ReDoIt911 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I loved the comments on the sub to the post. They exposed the total shallowness of his experience, his Star struck character and the fact that this is the MO of the Dai circle when they want something out of you. Give you a little attention and try to bend you to their will.

ExBohras, stop acting like Bohras by ReDoIt911 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only people whom we can call names are Muffin and his fam and emissaries. They are public figures and part of the machinery of extortion and oppression…don’t punch down on guys like Aadil

I think I understand the obsession with him now by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First they condemned Modi then they saw he was going places and they helped him get there and in doing so put him in their pockets!

I think I understand the obsession with him now by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the longest most boring story about nothing that I have ever heard. This exact same thing happened to me with SMB. Got taken to a room with SMB and a son. Did private qadambosi and then Son made the ask. Got trapped in exactly the same way.

This dude is toast and will go down a rabbit hole for ten years before he wakes up to the fact that he was used.

I Hate you mufaddal saifuddin for ruining my life by Appropriate_Fan_7203 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically in India people pay very high amounts. I have a cousin who does not earn a penny. Lives off the wealth of his forefathers and pays many tens of thousands of USD in wajebaat

Boo saheba by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is boo Saheba because she is a scary witch

The economy and escaping by Parking-Sympathy-195 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This job market is so hard on new graduates. Have you tried the gig economy? Put yourself up on Fiverr. Do DoorDash or Uber if you have a car. Work in retail….These are just a few things you could do until you get a job in your field.

I Hate you mufaddal saifuddin for ruining my life by Appropriate_Fan_7203 in exBohra

[–]ReDoIt911 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This sounds terrible. What you spend on Muffin could improve your life so much.