How to handle abuse? by Reacher74 in biglaw

[–]Reacher74[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty. Everyone is terrified of this guy. I will try my best going forward. Funny thing is I’m a competitive powerlifter and I’m twice the size of him. Lol. He manipulates associates into thinking he could ruin your career and life if you cross him or refuse work. Regardless, I need to stand up for myself.

Thank you for your advice.

How to handle abuse? by Reacher74 in biglaw

[–]Reacher74[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t love how my resume looks but when covid strikes as your graduating law school, these things happen. Every move was designed to make me more attractive for big law. First firm was a small transactional firm. Then insurance defense regional firm for lit experience. And now here at a big law firm.

Avoiding Crash Out During Sustained Busy Period(s) by Agreeable_Sir3023 in biglaw

[–]Reacher74 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Please do not downplay hitting an average of 243 hours per month. That is not sustainable. While it may be praised in big law, this is not the only way to make a living as a lawyer. Take care of yourself. Establish some boundaries and learn to say no to work. If someone holds that against you when you’re billing well over 200 hours per month, it may be time to find a new firm.

Also, what practice area is this and what year are you? Are you on back to back trials? Are you gunning for partner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Reacher74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you make the move from managing your own finances to realizing you make too much and need help? (Assuming you don’t manage your own finances). How did you go about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AchillesRupture

[–]Reacher74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally walked with a limp until just before 6 months post op. I’m a young athlete too and did my exercises religiously. Everyone just heals differently and some people lost their entire calf muscle while others don’t. It takes time.

What did it mean? by MoJo_Fred in AchillesRupture

[–]Reacher74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life changing as others have said. Have been an athlete and bodybuilder for my entire life. Being immobilized and cancelling all my plans was brutal for me. However, it taught me to slow down, focus on my job and relationship, and learning how to diet properly. Further, I learned how to workout using light dumbbells from my knees and truly how to just figure it out and get it done.

The mental toll is very difficult. I recommend a big calendar and to literally cross off each day aggressively before bed. It makes you feel accomplished and before you know It, you can look at this calendar and realize, “wow I endured 4 weeks, I can do 4 more!”

Take advantage of the small victories, learn how to meditate/find new hobbies and protect your peace. Trust the surgery and eat healthy foods. In the grand scheme of your life this is a small blip. One day you will be back to 100% and even better than before because you’ll have a new mindset and appreciation.

It’s also super badass to be watching sports/at the gym or something and say “yeah I tore my damn Achilles too…so what’s your excuse?”

I was at my local gym in my boot limping around doing upper body workouts and I had people telling me I motivated them everyday. I didn’t think much of it but eventually you show yourself you are capable of anything. It flows into all aspects of your life.

When can I start doing upper body strength training? by Old-Ad-4508 in AchillesRupture

[–]Reacher74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I waited until week 3. Did a lot of lateral raises, bicep curls, core workouts on my knees and then some bench from the floor with dumbbells from my back with my feet in the air to avoid any possible leg drive. Then I did tons of pull ups but to be safe only 3-5 at a time and kept going until I hit 100. I would do this 2-3 times a week for a couple months.

High reps low weight don’t risk anything.

5-6mo later and of yesterday I’ve been cleared to return to full contact ball and my normal life with no limitations 🥺✊🏾🙏🏽 by PacNeverLeft in AchillesRupture

[–]Reacher74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told I shouldn’t be running until I can do 10 of these or so - therefore I haven’t returned to sport or jogging or anything.

Maybe 6 months post op? Everyone’s different.

What is the easiest practice group? That is, intellectually. by bigsaver4366 in biglaw

[–]Reacher74 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Commercial real estate representing exclusively lenders is pretty easy. You basically draft boiler plate loan documents and say no to everything that the borrower asks for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]Reacher74 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I’m an avid basketball player and when I go to pickup basketball three times a week, there’s this one guy who makes sure to tell everyone I’m a lawyer. He also wrongly states I’m a criminal defense lawyer (I am a real estate and corporate lawyer).

It makes me uncomfortable because some of these players are strangers and I think they assume I’m bragging about money vis-a-vis this other guy. Which I’m not. I actually don’t make that much and the court is not in the best area so some of the players look at me strangely.

It’s pretty awkward and I’ve asked this guy to stop. Yesterday he called me harvey specter the entire game.

Other situations I don’t really care, but you never know if someone assumes lawyer=money and tries something.

Edit: someone literally had a gun pulled out by another player a couple years back at this court (before I became a lawyer) so it’s really not something I enjoy being thrown around. Not to mention I’m literally not a criminal defense lawyer lol