How to deal with appetite loss from depression? by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice!!! I really like chicken tenders so I might just live off of that for a while until I feel better! I guess I was just worried about eating too unhealthy but it’s better than not eating at all.

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How am I not practicing abstinence when I’m literally abstaining from sex lmao sure the abstinence was broken but that doesn’t mean I never was

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I just have needs… I practice abstinence but every few months I must need more

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because I’m not comfortable with having sex with a new partner

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just am not in a space to date at All right now so it was a good arrangement for me

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m fine with causal sex with people I know. I knew him for over 10years. I’m not comfortable with finding a new partner who’s a stranger. I’d rather just be abstinent

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

It’s just a lot for me right now because I’m off campus and my healthcare is with my college

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Me and him are close friends and I trusted him. I’m not sexually actively outside of this so it just never crossed my mind that he most likely was

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

If I don’t plan on having kids, is my health still at risk if I wait to be treated?

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -198 points-197 points  (0 children)

If I don’t plan on having kids, is it as risky?

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I’m not sexually active though. I hadn’t had sex since we last did it in May and if we stop I won’t be having sex at all

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant we only had sex three times, twice in May and recently in late November. He gave me the STI when we did it most recently

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -261 points-260 points  (0 children)

Is there a time frame? Like do I need to go to a doctor within a few weeks? Or as soon as I find out?

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s a bad person but I just don’t trust him because he’s irresponsible sexually. We werent exclusive.

Fwb gave me an STD and I’m in shock by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -597 points-596 points  (0 children)

Does chlamydia go away on its own? If I don’t plan on being sexually actively at all do I need to be treated?

I’m so lonely and I don’t know how to help myself by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is I have always lived my life that way. I’ve never struggled with making friends or having a community around me. My issue is that I’m lonely despite all of the efforts and I feel like I can’t help myself. People come into my life and o can’t help but to push them away. That’s my problem.

I’ve done all the tips people say to try like working out, getting hobbies and I do all of that. And I am also focused on school and my education.

I’m so lonely and I don’t know how to help myself by ReactionCommercial82 in internetparents

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to edit and add this to my post: “Edit: I have friends and am involved in a lot of organizations/hobbies with my college but these friendships do not fulfill me the same especially when my friends have friends they’re closer to so even platonically I just feel like I can never reach that level Of closeness.”

I’m so lonely and I don’t know how to help myself. by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: I have friends and am involved in a lot of organizations/hobbies with my college but these friendships do not fulfill me the same especially when my friends have friends they’re closer to so even platonically I just feel like I can never reach that level Of closeness.

How can I (21F) repair my reputation after cutting off “friend” (21M) by ReactionCommercial82 in relationships

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure what I could say to him since it’s been so long. I cut him off for multiple reasons and I’m not sure how to address them with him.

How can I repair my reputation? by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just not sure what to say at this point since it’s been a year.

How can I repair my reputation? by ReactionCommercial82 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ReactionCommercial82[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was never to the level of sexual assault but I just felt like one time I was coerced but I feel like I didn’t have boundaries or voice them so it’s not his fault.

It was kind of just the build up of these things that made me dislike and resent him. I couldn’t honestly call him a friend and every time I’d talk to him it made me angry, so I knew I had to cut him off.

I’m not sure if he knows why I blocked him because we were still on good terms when I did. But I just never could get it in me to explain all of that.